Stories of my life

7th February 2012

2012-02-07T11:42:00.002+08:00

Yes It's already the 7th of February in year of Dragon 2012 and I have not updated my blog for God knows how long.

I have a lot to share but as always, blame it to the time.

This is the year where everybody is planning to add a new addition to their family. I for one is planning to so. I am the type who can't easily conceive but am praying that HE will give me another of His blessing.

Oh and this year travel planning is to THAILAND...wohoooo...

Ok dunno what else to say. Will be visiting again later. :D...

Thank you for visiting :D *mcm la ada pelawat*..hehehe

Some advice please

2011-10-12T12:33:00.001+08:00

To anyone of you who have been to Thailand, can you give me some idea as to where are the best place to visit, hotel to stay etc?...

Thanks you guys..

Wife of Girlfriend..?

2011-10-12T12:30:00.002+08:00

Yes I seldom update my blog.
Yes I have blogger block..I can't think everytime I want to write something here.
Yes I copy the following from the net.
and Yes I like it very much..
enjoy..

Diff between Wife & Girlfriend

Some people say:
Wife is a HARIMAU ............... Girlfriend is HARI HARI MAHU

And some say:
Wife is like TV, Girlfriend is like Handphone (HP)
At home watch TV, Go out bring HP.
No money, sell TV. Got money change HP.
Sometimes enjoy TV but most of the time play with HP.
TV free for life but HP, if you don't pay, the services will be terminated.
TV is big, bulky and most of the time old but HP is cute, slim, curvy and very portable at any time.
Operational cost for TV is often acceptable but for HP is high and often demanding.
Most Important, TV got remote but HP don't have.
Last but not least.......
TV do not have virus but HP have VIRUS......
Once get it, HABIS LAH.

So better choose TV lah

Travelling....My passion

2011-09-23T09:05:00.003+08:00

Yes...Who don't love going for vacation? I for one really love going for vacation. Be it locally or outside of the country.

I am sure most of you guys know about the low fare offered by AA. Login in to the site is one story, looking for the low fare is another story. That really taste my patience. But maybe luck is on my side and I manage to buy us air ticket for our next vacation. Well we only be going for the vacation in August 2012 but at least we already have the ticket.weee... so can I start the count down now? :D...

The place I will be going and look forward too...

311 days to go.....*gila o sa kan*

What do women really want?

2011-08-19T10:09:00.004+08:00

King Arthur and the Witch:

Young King Arthur was ambushed and imprisoned by the monarch of a neighbouring kingdom. The monarch could have killed him but was moved by Arthur's youth and ideals. So, the monarch offered him his freedom, as long as he could answer a very difficult question. Arthur would have a year to figure out the answer and, if after a year, he still had no answer, he would be put to death.

The question?...What do women really want?
Such a question would perplex even the most knowledgeable man, and to young Arthur, it seemed an impossible query. But, since it was better than death, he accepted the monarch's proposition to have an answer by year's end.

He returned to his kingdom and began to poll everyone: the princess, the priests, the wise men and even the court jester. He spoke with everyone, but no one could give him a satisfactory answer.

Many people advised him to consult the old witch, for only she would have the answer.

But the price would be high; as the witch was famous throughout the kingdom for the exorbitant prices she charged.

The last day of the year arrived and Arthur had no choice but to talk to the witch. She agreed to answer the question, but he would have to agree to her price first.

The old witch wanted to marry Sir Lancelot, the most noble of the Knights of the Round Table and Arthur's closest friend!

Young Arthur was horrified. She was hunchbacked and hideous, had only one tooth, smelled like sewage, made obscene noises, etc. He had never encountered such a repugnant creature in all his life.

He refused to force his friend to marry her and endure such a terrible burden; but Lancelot, learning of the proposal, spoke with Arthur.

He said nothing was too big of a sacrifice compared to Arthur's life and the preservation of the Round Table.

Hence, a wedding was proclaimed and the witch answered Arthur's question thus:

What a woman really wants, she answered....is to be in charge of her own life.

Everyone in the kingdom instantly knew that the witch had uttered a great truth and that Arthur's life would be spared.

And so it was, the neighboring monarch granted Arthur his freedom and Lancelot and the witch had a wonderful wedding.

The honeymoon hour approached and Lancelot, steeling himself for a horrific experience, entered the bedroom. But, what a sight awaited him. The most beautiful woman he had ever seen lay before him on the bed. The astounded Lancelot asked what had happened

The beauty replied that since he had been so kind to her when she appeared as a witch, she would henceforth, be her horrible deformed self only half the time and the beautiful maiden the other half.

Which would he prefer? Beautiful during the day....or night?

Lancelot pondered the predicament. During the day, a beautiful woman to show off to his friends, but at night, in the privacy of his castle, an old witch? Or, would he prefer having a hideous witch during the day, but by night, a beautiful woman for him to enjoy wondrous intimate moments?

What would YOU do?

What Lancelot chose is below.

BUT....make YOUR choice before you scroll down below.

OKAY?

Noble Lancelot said that he would allow HER to make the choice herself.

Upon hearing this, she announced that she would be beautiful all the time because he had respected her enough to let her be in charge of her own life.

Now....what is the moral to this story?

The moral is.....
If you don't let a woman have her own way....
Things are going to get ugly

tolong laaaa

2011-08-19T09:44:00.000+08:00

After coming back from our local vacation, I still feel like going for another vacation..

Adui tolong la...

*Just ignore me..I am just bored and frustrated*

Me baking ?

2011-08-16T12:16:00.007+08:00

ok.. I am in the mood of baking and I want to "learn" to bake this

Actually I have thought of baking cake for donkey years but I can't bring myself in doing so.. Maybe when I have my own house, I'll start baking as I owned the kitchen and all the cutlery.. Meanwhile I just keep on dreaming.

I took the picture above from here --> table for 2..or more ... the writer even give the "how to bake" guide.. Then I "really have to bake this"...gosh..

O If any of you read this and want to donate your oven (big one that can bake 1kg cake that is), than you are most welcome. :D

When everything at your finger tips

2011-06-30T21:05:00.002+08:00

The modern technology makes everything's easy for us or should I say everything at our finger tips. What am I talking about? well I always read about people's experience making a purchase online and how easy it is for them. I for one never believe or should I say trust in this type of business. Being someone who does not easily trust people, I makes it difficult for me to trust and to make any purchase online.

Hubby did became one of the online scam where he was looking for PSP2 and found someone who want to sell a brand new PSP2 with a very low price. I was against it but he really have made up his mind that he made the transfer. The result..until now he did not receive anything.

Well not everybody is that bad right? No?..one of my friend made a lot of money from online business. He sell car online and now he earn a lot. There's a lot of online site which we can do these type of business. One of it is this market place. You just advertise your job offer and someone will answer you immediately and what make it special is that the market place is within your community. Meaning, you know who you are dealing with. That makes things even easier.

Right, I think, I should start thinking what should I offer.

And the new semester begin

2011-06-07T21:01:00.007+08:00

Yesterday was the first day or should I say semester reopens for University students (or is it only for UiTM student?)..On Sunday I went to one of the Hyper mall near my home and bump into someone I know, buying stationaries for the new semester and suddenly the memories strike back..

10 years back in year 2000, I was in my final year taking my degree. I still remember what a struggle we went through to complete our thesis and to sit for our finals until to the extend of wishing that we can Google for the questions that will come out in the exams.At that time pimple is our main concern as lack of sleep is a norm in our daily life. Not forgetting the house rent to pay of course. And at that particular time I for once can't wait to leave those exams word i.e study world.. never did I know that one day I still have to sit for another test. The driving test.

Frankly, when I took my driving written test, I did not study and was too confident that i will fail the test. That's how severely I hate exams or test. Luckily I pass the exam by scoring 16/20. A borderline mark as what people says. How I wish at that time we already have DMV site to help us, I will surely not hate exams.... sigh.... the moerdern world makes everything almost possible..

KOTOBIAN TADAU TAGAZO DO KAAMATAN

2011-05-09T10:02:00.002+08:00

Monday.

It have been a busy week for me and all the Unduk Ngadau crew for Putatan Kaamatan Festival. Lucky that everything went well. There is some need to be fixed but overall, congratulations to the hardworking crew.

To all Putatan people, this is our winner...

Lastly, once again, Kotobian Tadau Tagazo Do Kaamatan

Selamat Po'

2011-03-10T17:11:00.015+08:00

*this is a delayed post*

(my dearest travel buddies)

After a year with no vacation, this year we went for "cuti-cuti" out of Malaysia.. yes we went to Philipinas this time around. A group of 10 with 2 children, we flew to Clark on the 26th Feb and came back on the 2nd March.. An interesting, enjoyable, stress free and refreshing breakaway... Needless to say more, enjoy the pictures.

*this post is for her to remember that she've been to these places*

Wear it in Style

2011-02-11T10:41:00.005+08:00

How to look trendy and classy when you wear spectacle? Some of you may say "use contact lens then". But with my style of living and attitude, I don't think contact lens is the solution.

I use to wear spectacle when I was still studying and people say "you look nerd with spectacle". I wish that I can use contact lens. To avoid the nerd look, I prefer not to wear spectacles. But by not wearing spectacles, another problem arise, how are you going to see?. With Spectacles, how are you going to look trendy and classy? Well worry no more as I came across these web vitage glasses and for designer glasses.

I fell in love with this one particular glasses as I have told DH I need new glasses and I want this type :-

I think I will look classy and trendy on the same time. Hopefully DH is reading this post as I really want this.

o by the way, you can also try all the frames and got to know is it suits you or not virtually. hop on and try it. Maybe you get your dream look.

see ya

You Will always be remembered

2011-01-24T09:54:00.002+08:00

I was browsing through all the status and notification posted in fb when I came across this sing which I share in my earlier post.

Something in this song touch me and I googled for the Divine Mercy prayer..
The following prayer really touch me that I cried inside:-

Divine Mercy for the Unborn

For all the helpless little children who die in the womb of their mother, I pray that all of these little souls will be given eternal life by Our Lord Jesus Christ, through His Divine Mercy and I beg Jesus that I be allowed to spiritually baptise a little souls born dead and I do so by saying: I baptise you (give a name, preferably a saint's name) in the name of The Father, The Son, and The Holy Spirit ....
"I have called you by your name, you are mine" (Is. 43:1)

You see, before I conceive My little Faith, I was blessed and got pregnant in October 2008, but was immediately told (after I went for my first check) that there might be something wrong with my baby. True enough, 2 weeks after that I lost the embryo. No sign of development or even a heartbeat... I cried and cried. The hubby was the one who gave me strength and encouragement that maybe God Love him / her more and will bless us with another beautiful child.

But even though now I was blessed with my beautiful little Faith, I will always remember my little miracle that open my eyes and give me faith that someday he/ she will send an angel to me. Mama will always remember you even you are with us only for a short while.

Amen

The Divine Mercy Prayer in a Song

2011-01-24T09:53:00.001+08:00

I really need you

2011-01-20T15:24:00.003+08:00

Yes! that's the exact word that suit what I am feeling right now. Well don't get me wrong...I am not referring to human being per say..

With the workload and environment around me, and also "No Vacation" year for us last year,
I can't wait for my next out of county vacation this coming end of February.

Yeas your heard me right there. I am going for a vacation. Out of Malaysia vacation. Of course I am dragging along my little Faith and the papa as well. mana best pigi vacation sendiri-sendiri kan.

As my tiker above calculate, I have another 1 month 6 days to go and I'll be off enjoying myself out. Lame but hey at least I am making myself happy.

Cherrio...

ps :- actually my little brother ask me to update my blog. Was suppose to update about Little Faith new development but since the vacation thingy is the main thing in my mind and I am at my "beautiful" office at the moment, so here I am bro. hehehe

ps1:- oh wanna know where about I will be off too? That too you have to wait. yay

To My Dearest....

2010-12-10T12:35:00.003+08:00

Lovely daughter, mama love you always. Tomorrow, 11th December 2010, mark the day you reach the age of 1 year.

Time really flies. I still remember one year ago, my eagerness and scared at the same time knowing that you will be born the day after. Your Papa stays beside me all the time, giving me strength and also eager to see his new born. We have been waiting for you for three full years and God gave us the best gift ever as our Christmas present in 2009.This Year, seeing you grow big, clever, sweet, lovely and just about everything, you are still our greatest Christmas gift. Mama and Papa will always pray that you'll grow healthy, happy and away from any harm. You are always in our prayer.

"Dear Lord I am so grateful you saw us through her birth Now I humbly pray for blessings as she lives upon this earth Bless her every pathway whether she run or walk or crawl God bless her health and wellness and her spirit most of all Please let her know you’re with her every step along the way Don’t ever let her feel alone and keep her fears at bay Lord I pray on bended knee she’ll ask you to live within her heart I pray from the world’s iniquities you’ll keep her far apart Dear God when she is older and her life does not seem fair Please remind her of the cross and the burden Christ did bear Help her live your purpose and share the gospel well Let your light shine through her and cause other’s faith to swell When she is a wife someday, Lord I pray you’ll set her course Bless her with a loving spouse and protect them from divorce Father, if you also bless them with children of their own I pray you’ll bless her mothering until her kids are grown Most of all I pray today with an open heart and soul My child will know you love her and it’s You who makes her whole"

It is not too early to wish Happy 1 year Birthday to Faith Sinundu Dulakim a.k.a Mika.

Where are you Christmas? Faith Hill

2010-11-27T00:03:00.000+08:00

Christmas is coming soon and this year is our first year celebrating this blessed celebration with our beloved daughter. Of course she was born few days before Christmas last year but the joy at that time is different as compared to this year.

For years I don't feel the Christmas spirit anymore but this year, everything is different and I feel like sharing this song with you all.

Can't wait for Christmas.

Till then hugs

Ini cuaca sungguh panas

2010-10-04T09:49:00.003+08:00

Monday 4th October 2010

Yes.. the title said it all... I have not been raining since last Saturday (Which happen to be the day I was not working).. and I have been having this headache since then until today... and the worst thing is today is Monday.. the day where I dread the most.. arggghhhhh....... punya la malas saya ni hari...campur pening lagi...

p/s please ignore the writer as she is in a state of agony..

Doing IT the natural way

2010-09-21T13:51:00.004+08:00

Tuesday 21st September 2010

I came across this article while opening my email thins morning and thought of posting it here for my own reminder and guideline and also for those who want to use this method.

This is the 8 natural ways to enhance fertility (frankly I've used method no. 2, 7 & 8)

1. Practice, practice, practice!

Weekly sexual intimacy appears to regulate your monthly cycle, as well as delay the decline of estrogen as we get older, both of which can enhance fertility, according to research by Winnifred Cutler, Ph.D., founder of the Athena Institute in Chester Springs, Pennsylvania. More estrogen is also linked to increased bone density, a healthier cardiovascular system, lower “bad” cholesterol, higher “good” cholesterol and a milder menopause. After all that, what are you waiting for—consider this permission to get busy!

2. Weigh in

Having a body-mass index greater than 25 can increase the likelihood of a whole host of health troubles, including polycystic ovary syndrome, which disrupts your menstrual cycle—and may derail your plans for getting pregnant without complications. Aim for a BMI between 18.5 and 25; calculate yours at Self.com.

3. Butt out

You know smoking stinks for your lung and heart health—and now studies show that it can also raise your risk for early menopause. Toxins in the cancer sticks can disrupt ovulation, but the good news is that quitting today can help preserve your fertility. For new ways to kick the habit, talk to your M.D. or visit SmokeFree.gov.

4. Hit the hay

Some infertile women have been shown to have low levels of leptin, a hormone that affects hunger and weight regulation. Leptin levels drop if you fall short on zzz’s, so try to log 7 to 8 hours tonight and every night.

5. Clean house

Chemicals in home products can impair fertility. Polybrominated diphenyl ethers (PBDEs) are flame retardants in some tech toys, plastics and fabrics, and a study in the journal Environmental Health Perspectives reports that women with high PBDE blood levels took twice as long to conceive as those with lower levels. The chemicals may alter thyroid function and disrupt sex-hormone levels. PBDEs leach out and linger in dust we breathe and touch, so use a vacuum with a HEPA filter and wash your hands often to rinse away any residual toxins.

6. Ace your exams

Sexually transmitted infections such as chlamydia can cause pelvic inflammation and scarring of the fallopian tubes, which can lead to infertility. Practice safe sex, of course, and see your ob/gyn annually to monitor your reproductive health.

7. Don’t rule out ice cream

All you ice cream lovers, take heart: Full-fat dairy foods (like cheese, ice cream and whole milk) may help you get pregnant, a study from the Harvard School of Public Health in Boston finds. A fat-soluble compound in dairy may up your odds of conceiving. Pass the spoon!

8. B smart

Once recommended only for pregnant women, folic acid (400 micgrograms a day) is now considered good medicine for all women of childbearing age, says Mark Gapinski, M.D., an ob/gyn at Central DuPage Hospital in Winfield, Illinois. We use the B vitamin to make and maintain new cells in skin, hair, nails and throughout the body. Found naturally in lentils (360 mcg per cup) and leafy greens like spinach (260 mcg per cup), folic acid prevents miscarriage and birth defects.

Till then, hugs

Start your day with a simple prayer

2010-09-15T09:44:00.004+08:00

Dear Lord,

Thank you for this day.
I thank you for my being able to see and to hear this morning.
I'm blessed because You are a forgiving God and an understanding God.

You have done so much for me and You keep on blessing me.
Forgive me this day for everything I will do, say or think that was not pleasing to you.

I ask now for Your forgiveness.
Please keep me safe from all danger and harm.

Help me to start this day with a new attitude and plenty of gratitude.
Let me make the best of each and everyday to clear my mind so that I can hear from you.

Please broaden my mind that I can accept all things.
Let me not whine and whimper over things I have no control over.
And give me the best response when I'm pushed beyond my limits.

Keep me strong that I may help the weak.
Keep me uplifted that I may have words of encouragement for others.
I pray for those that are lost and can't fond their way.
I pray for those that are misjudged and misunderstood.
I pray for those who don't know you intimately.
I pray for those that don't believe.

But thank You that I believe that God changes people and God changes things.
I pray for all my sisters and brothers.
For each and every family member in their households.
I pray for peace, love and joy in their homes,
that they are out of debt and all their needs are met.

I pray that every eye that reads this know there is no problem, circumstance, or situation greater that God.
Every battle is in Your hands for You to fight.

I pray that these words be received into the hearts of every eye that sees it.
Amen

Drive safely

2010-09-13T14:53:00.002+08:00

This is a Sponsored Post written by me on behalf of NMEDA. All opinions are 100% mine.

This Raya, the authority is doing the ops sikap drive to eradicate the probability of misfortune on the road. Always we hear people lost their love ones especially during this festive season and it really terrifies me. How I wish we have NMEDA here in Malaysia.

As stated NMEDA is a non-profit trade association which educates the customer on buying products from their qualified dealer. NMEDA has dealers and Quality Assurance Program (QAP) dealers. They promotes safe driving and equipment for disable people. Their members also required to adhere to the safety standards of the National Highway Traffic Safety Administration. Their members are those who sell handicap vans and vehicle modifications for disable people.

Talking about buying custom made products, it is impossible for us especially those with disability to get the RIGHT product for them as all the product where created according to universal specs. There is no two people with disability are exactly the same. But through NMEDA members, you can be sure you are getting the right driving solution customized to your specific lifestyle and needs. Additional training will also be given by their dealer.

I never have the experience of being the caregiver of those disable people and I never wish to become one because I know it is a tough job. But need less to say, with the assistance from the NMEDA qualified dealer I am sure the burden could be reduced and it also helps those disables to get back onto the road of independence.

Never ending story

2010-09-13T12:56:00.002+08:00

Monday 13th September 2010

It's Monday and I am all alone in my office. Well there is some staff at the other department but in mine I am alone. I repeat ALONE..

Nevermind. I have the office for me alone and I am loving it actually. hehhe

I am actually cracking my brain on what are the prefect reason to put in my appeal letter to change the status of my land. I am actually planning to built my house on my small paddy land which before I can get my housing loan, I have to change the status of the land from agriculture to homestead.

Is there anyone out there ever came across this matter and do you have any advice on how to go about it? I am stuck here and I need to do this fast I mean REALLY FAST.

*count my blessing*

Tik,tik, the clock is tiking

2010-09-06T16:04:00.002+08:00

Monday 06 September 2010

Its Monday again and I am saying that I can't wait for Friday to come. Yes!!! People say that this Friday is Hari Raya so I would like to take this opportunity to wish those of you who are celebrating Hari Raya,

Meanwhile some of you may notice that I have changed my blog layout. I have been thinking of changing it few times before but I got lazy especially when looking for hundred and hundred of layout. So just bear with me for the time being ya.

And I also put the daisy tiker as I am counting the special days in my life. Yes our wedding anniversary, Faith's age and also our next vacation. With the tense, rush and things going around me, plus hearing people going for holiday (my dad and sister is at Korea-China at the moment), Chequ Carol is enjoying her holiday in Perth with the hubby, Sis-in law just came back from Manila, etc.. Arghhh I so wanna go for holiday... bah cepat-cepat la masa berlalu.. (hance the title of this entry).

Ok enough rambling..need to complete some of my task...

Till Death do us part

2010-09-03T12:56:00.002+08:00

Friday 03 September 2010

This story really touch me that I cried when I read it through. An example for us to appreciate our partner and always be there for him/her.

"Till Death Do us Part"

When I got home that night as my wife served dinner, I held her hand and said, I've got something to tell you. She sat down and ate quietly. Again I observed the hurt in her eyes.

Suddenly I didn't know how to open my mouth. But I had to let her know what I was thinking. I want a divorce. I raised the topic calmly.

She didn't seem to be annoyed by my words, instead she asked me softly, why?

I avoided her question. This made her angry. She threw away the chopsticks and shouted at me, you are not a man! That night, we didn't talk to each other. She was weeping. I knew she wanted to find out what had happened to our marriage. But I could hardly give her a satisfactory answer; she had lost my heart to Jane. I didn't love her anymore. I just pitied her!

With a deep sense of guilt, I drafted a divorce agreement which stated that she could own our house, our car, and 30% stake of my company.

She glanced at it and then tore it into pieces. The woman who had spent ten years of her life with me had become a stranger. I felt sorry for her wasted time, resources and energy but I could not take back what I had said for I loved Jane so dearly. Finally she cried loudly in front of me, which was what I had expected to see. To me her cry was actually a kind of release. The idea of divorce which had obsessed me for several weeks seemed to be firmer and clearer now.

The next day, I came back home very late and found her writing something at the table. I didn't have supper but went straight to sleep and fell asleep very fast because I was tired after an eventful day with Jane.

When I woke up, she was still there at the table writing. I just did not care so I turned over and was asleep again.

In the morning she presented her divorce conditions: she didn't want anything from me, but needed a month's notice before the divorce. She requested that in that one month we both struggle to live as normal a life as possible. Her reasons were simple: our son had his exams in a month's time and she didn't want to disrupt him with our broken marriage.

This was agreeable to me. But she had something more, she asked me to recall how I had carried her into out bridal room on our wedding day.

She requested that every day for the month's duration I carry her out of our bedroom to the front door ever morning. I thought she was going crazy. Just to make our last days together bearable I accepted her odd request.

I told Jane about my wife's divorce conditions. . She laughed loudly and thought it was absurd. No matter what tricks she applies, she has to face the divorce, she said scornfully.

My wife and I hadn't had any body contact since my divorce intention was explicitly expressed. So when I carried her out on the first day, we both appeared clumsy. Our son clapped behind us, daddy is holding mommy in his arms. His words brought me a sense of pain. From the bedroom to the sitting room, then to the door, I walked over ten meters with her in my arms. She closed her eyes and said softly; don't tell our son about the divorce. I nodded, feeling somewhat upset. I put her down outside
the door. She went to wait for the bus to work. I drove alone to the office.

On the second day, both of us acted much more easily. She leaned on my chest. I could smell the fragrance of her blouse. I realized that I hadn't looked at this woman carefully for a long time. I realized she was not young any more. There were fine wrinkles on her face, her hair was graying! Our marriage had taken its toll on her. For a minute I wondered what I had done to her.

On the fourth day, when I lifted her up, I felt a sense of intimacy returning. This was the woman who had given ten years of her life to me.

On the fifth and sixth day, I realized that our sense of intimacy was growing again. I didn't tell Jane about this. It became easier to carry her as the month slipped by. Perhaps the everyday workout made me stronger.

She was choosing what to wear one morning. She tried on quite a few dresses but could not find a suitable one. Then she sighed, all my dresses have grown bigger. I suddenly realized that she had grown so thin, that was the reason why I could carry her more easily.

Suddenly it hit me... she had buried so much pain and bitterness in her heart. Subconsciously I reached out and touched her head.

Our son came in at the moment and said, Dad, it's time to carry mom out. To him, seeing his father carrying his mother out had become an essential part of his life. My wife gestured to our son to come closer and hugged him tightly. I turned my face away because I was afraid I might change my mind at this last minute. I then held her in my arms, walking from the bedroom, through the sitting room, to the hallway. Her hand surrounded my neck softly and naturally. I held her body tightly; it was just like our wedding day.

But her much lighter weight made me sad. On the last day, when I held her in my arms I could hardly move a step. Our son had gone to school. I held her tightly and said, I hadn't noticed that our life lacked intimacy.

I drove to office.... jumped out of the car swiftly without locking the door. I was afraid any delay would make me change my mind...I walked upstairs. Jane opened the door and I said to her, Sorry, Jane, I do not want the divorce anymore.

She looked at me, astonished, and then touched my forehead. Do you have a fever? She said. I moved her hand off my head. Sorry, Jane, I said, I won't divorce. My marriage life was boring probably because she and I didn't value the details of our lives, not because we didn't love each other anymore. Now I realize that since I carried her into my home on our wedding day I am supposed to hold her until death do us apart.

Jane seemed to suddenly wake up. She gave me a loud slap and then slammed the door and burst into tears. I walked downstairs and drove away.

At the floral shop on the way, I ordered a bouquet of flowers for my wife. The salesgirl asked me what to write on the card. I smiled and wrote, I'll carry you out every morning until death do us apart.

That evening I arrived home, flowers in my hands, a smile on my face, I run up stairs, only to find my wife in the bed - dead.
My wife had been fighting CANCER for months and I was so busy with Jane to even notice. She knew that she would die soon and she wanted to save me from the whatever negative reaction from our son, in case we push thru with the divorce.-- At least, in the eyes of our son--- I'm a loving husband....

The small details of your lives are what really matter in a relationship. It is not the mansion, the car, property, the money in the bank. These create an environment conducive for happiness but cannot give happiness in themselves. So find time to be your spouse's friend and do those little things for each other that build intimacy. Do have a real happy marriage!

Many of life's failures are people who did not realize how close they were to success when they gave up.

A CHRIST-CENTERED MARRIAGE IS A MARRIAGE THAT IS SURE TO LAST A LIFETIME.

no title

2010-08-30T14:05:00.000+08:00

Monday 30th August 2010

I wanna live in a world with no worries, and nothing to think about but just happiness and full of laughter.
Any idea where and how?

2011 travel plan

2010-08-19T13:42:00.005+08:00

19th August 2010

Since we do not have any travel plan for this year apart from going to Penang for my conference last July, we have make and committed to three visitng program next year. Yes as what us Sabahan always say kasi malatup sama dia .

By end of February Hubby, Little Faith, yours truly and three other couples (of course they are my friends) will be going for a 5d4n trip to MANILA...Can't wait..can't wait.

In July (God Willing) we might be going to MELAKA for my conference. Well I am already qualified and they were saying that Melaka night be the next destination. Hmm never been to this one particular place so of course I am looking foward for this trip too. Hopfully it is not as disappointning as my trip this year. Dear Organizer (I don't know if you guys read my blog) but can you guys make the coming conference more interesting? Can we go to more interesting places?

And before we have time to breath, the first week of August we will be going to Kuching. This one to bring the In Laws visits their family there. A 6d5n visit to Kuching. This time around I MUST make sure that I visit those places that I didn't manage to visit on my first visit. Places like the Chienese Tample, walking along the waterfront AT NIGHT, etc..etc.. I am sure those of your who have been to Kuching have more place of interest to suggest. Care sharing?

And hubby's cuzzie also told us that at that particular time we will be able to join the famous Food Fair. nyum..nyum.. that's the perfect time to visit then.
So yeah that's my travel plan or should I say travel program for next year. Can't wait for the time to come. Meanwhile this year is the time to save...save...save...

until next post..

see ya

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2010-08-19T13:34:00.001+08:00

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Tak Ku Sangka

2010-08-19T12:50:00.004+08:00

19/08/2010 (Thursday)

Never did I knew that my friends do read my blog until I cam across their status update in FB quoting the quote I put in one of my entry. I am so glad. Ada juga my silent reader pulak ni.

This shot entry I would like to dedicate to my dearest friend Ms. Betsy Vine and Ms. Shermalyn Eleanor.Oh not forgetting my cuzzie Ms. Jenny Evonella and Ms. Faine Hunny. Thanks dear for dropping by.

Milestone

2010-08-11T13:39:00.003+08:00

11th August 2010 and today she's officially 8th Month old.

Who am I talking about? Well she's none other than my beautiful princess. Little Faith Sinundu. She brought light and happiness in our life that a day without her around really gave a big impact in me.

I thank God Almighty for answering my prayer and gave me my baby.

"A baby will make love stronger, days shorter, nights longer, bank balance smaller, home happier, clothes dirty, the past forgotten, and the future worth living for." and I am loving each and everything of this
baby Faith at 1 month old

"When you become a mother, you stop being the picture and start being the frame." - She really have changed me

Baby faith at nearly 7 month ++ (my little rascal)

"The words “I love you” and a little hug from a child is a piece of heaven." - You really are a piece of heaven to Papa and Mama darling

*Hugs*

What say you.....

2010-07-23T11:44:00.003+08:00

I don't know about you guys but as for me, this is a tiny winny small thing which does not even impact the country's economy and they are making it such a big deal. Come on, just because they are called "The Red Devil" and they are really "The Devil"?.. Those people who brought up this things really have nothing better to do in their life and NARROW minded people. People from the other country is laughing at us. I really pity your guys..

"KUALA LUMPUR (AFP) – Manchester United's fans in Malaysia erupted in astonishment and anger on social media Thursday after clerics warned Muslims against wearing the team's famous jersey with its "devil" emblem.

Manchester United and the rest of the English Premier League are hugely popular in Muslim-majority Malaysia, where conservative religious leaders said the jersey was un-Islamic and should be banned.

Social networking sites like Twitter and Facebook were flooded with comments from fans in the Southeast Asian nation.

"Maybe the religious leaders are just fans of Liverpool?" quipped one supporter on Twitter.

"Why this become an issue after Manchester United has won the title for 11 times? They haven't been watching the matches all this while?" said Sharifah Shahidah, a die-hard Manchester United fan of two-decades standing.

"What am I gonna do with all my Man Utd jerseys? And my sons' jerseys?" Sharifah, a Muslim mother of two and an IT programmer, asked on her Twitter account. "Should I cover the emblem with a picture of flower?"

Malaysian clerics said Wednesday that Muslims must not wear the iconic red jersey because devils should be shunned, not celebrated, and urged those who had worn the garment to "repent immediately".

Also off-limits are the shirts of teams including Brazil, Portugal, Barcelona and Serbia, all of which carry an image of the Christian crucifix in their team emblems.

"This is very dangerous. As a Muslim, we should not worship the symbols of other religions or the devils," said Nooh Gadot, a top Islamic leader from southern Johor state.

Manchester United Fan Club Malaysia, which has about 7,000 members, declined to comment, but the fan club's chief, Lawrence How, noted there was no official ban on the jerseys.

The clerics agreed there was no "fatwa", or religious edict, but that one was not needed when it was clearly wrong for Muslims to wear such a garment.

Malaysia is a generally moderate Islamic country, but conservative clerics have issued controversial edicts in the past, including a ban on the ancient practice of yoga, which is criticised for including Hindu elements."

Airplanes

2010-07-22T09:15:00.003+08:00

Yes..... can we just pretend that airplanes in the night sky are like shooting stars?... I would like to wish for all my wishes to come true. Can I? can I?Airplanes

[Chorus Hayley Williams]
Can we pretend that airplanes
In the night sky
Are like shooting stars
I could really use a wish right now (wish right now) (wish right now)
Can we pretend that airplanes
In the night sky
Are like shooting stars
I could really use a wish right now (wish right now) (wish right now)

[Verse 1 B.o.B]
Yeah
I could use a dream or a genie or a wish
To go back to a place much simpler than this
Cause after all the partyin and smashin and crashin
And all the glitz and the glam and the fashion
And all the pandemonium and all the madness
There comes a time where you fade to the blackness
And when youre staring at that phone in your lap
And you hoping but them people never call you back
But thats just how the story unfolds
You get another hand soon after you fold
And when your plans unravel
And they sayin what would you wish for
If you had one chance
So airplane airplane sorry Im late
Im on my way so dont close that gate
If I dont make that then Ill switch my flight
And Ill be right back at it by the end of the night

[Chorus Hayley Williams]

[Verse 2 B.o.B]
Somebody take me back to the days
Before this was a job, before I got paid
Before it ever mattered what I had in my bank
Yeah back when I was tryin to get into the subway
And back when I was rappin for the hell of it
But now a days we rappin to stay relevant
Im guessin that if we can make some wishes outta airplanes
Then maybe yo maybe Ill go back to the days
Before the politics that we call the rap game
And back when aint nobody listened to my mix tape
And back before I tried to cover up my slang
But this is for the Cada, whats up Bobby Ray
So can I get a wish to end the politics
And get back to the music that started this shit
So here I stand and then again I say
Im hopin we can make some wishes outta airplanes?

Holiday...

2010-07-14T13:18:00.003+08:00

Hi peeps,

Just a quick update here.

Tomorrow me n hubby will be going for a quick holiday to Penang with a bunch of qualifier.

And we will be staying at The G Hotel Penang. Can't waith to see the actual view as the picture show a very beautiful lobby, comfy room etc..etc..

This is the only holiday we'll be making this year since Little Faith is still small to tag along. Next year, we are planning for a big one. So yeah, a short and quick holiday it is.

Will update the pictures etc..etc..

Till then,

*hugs*

Mini Edition

2010-07-12T10:06:00.008+08:00

*notes : this post supposed to be posted yesterday but due to the overly slow line, I post this today. so please bear with me ya*

Hi peeps,

Its Monday and as usual Monday is "the" day that I dread the most. Pity the day. Its actually just the emotional side of me bah kan. Anyway, congrats to Spain for winning the 2010 WC. I am not a fan, hubby does and more or less I got the updates of who won and who lost and even who won the bet the biggest. shhh that one I can't tell you who. hahaha..

Okay back to the title, I am actually referring to Sophie Kinsella's new book. "Mini shopaholic". I don't actually know that She's coming up with a new book, but thanks to my fulltime housewife sister at the moment, excitedly she informed me about this. Yes I can't wait for September to come.

Dunno if I am willing to by the hardcover edition, for I know it will be very expensive. But I know someone will surely buy it first.. Kan Chegu....LOL

But while waiting for September to come, I have 3 more books to finish up so I think I am well occupied till September.

Till then
cherio

Tell Me Why...?

2010-07-05T17:32:00.002+08:00

My Assistant was listening to this song , "tell me why I hate Monday" that gave me an idea on what to write here. As you guys realize, I have not updated any new post in this sleepy blog of mine hence the spider is making this blog as their home sweet home.

Ok for starter I just want to ask this simple questions

Tell me why... I Hate Monday
Tell me why... I am damn lazy on this day that I did almost nothing at work (pssstt do not inform the boss)
Tell me why... I have been in the "blank" zone that I SELDOM or almost NEVER update my blog.
Tell me why... I do not have extra $$ to spend
Tell me why... Just about every small thing make me worry
and the most important question ...Tell me why... I am not filthy rich.

Nah keluar sudah apa dalam utak sa tapi ini belum abis lagi ni. nanti sa saya continue hehehe. Time to go home. Baby mama coming home...

*hugs*

wakakakka

2010-05-13T13:30:00.002+08:00

I don't know but I just need these laugh so I am sharing this to you guys..... Exercises bah muka.

A pirate at the local bar discusses his past

A seaman meets a pirate in a bar, and talk turns to their adventures on the sea. The seaman notes that the pirate has a peg-leg, a hook, and an eye patch.

The seaman asks, "So, how did you end up with the peg-leg?" The pirate replies, "We were in a storm at sea, and I was swept overboard into a school of sharks. Just as my men were pulling me out, a shark bit my leg off."

"Wow!" said the seaman. "What about your hook"? "Well", replied the pirate, "We were boarding an enemy ship and were battling the other sailors with swords. One of the enemy cut my hand off."

"Incredible!" remarked the seaman. "How did you get the eye patch"? "A seagull dropping fell into my eye," replied the pirate.

"You lost your eye to a seagull dropping?," the sailor asked incredulously. "Well," said the pirate, "it was my first day with my hook"

Simple operation

A man was seen fleeing down the hall of the hospital just before his operation.

"What's the matter?" he was asked.

He said, "I heard the nurse say, 'It's a very simple operation, don't worry, I'm sure it will be all right."

"She was just trying to comfort you, what's so frightening about that?"

"She wasn't talking to me. She was talking to the doctor.

Bottle trouble

A woman was trying hard to get the catsup to come out of the jar. During her struggle the phone rang so she asked her four-year old daughter to answer the phone.

"It's the minister, Mommy," the child said to her mother.

Then she added, "Mommy can't come to the phone to talk to you right now. She's hitting the bottle."

Funny taste

Two cannibals are eating a clown. One says to the other "Does this taste funny to you?"

In record time

Joe walks into the living room and sees Lucy whooping and hollering.

"What's the matter?" Joe asked.

"Nothing at all. I just finished a jigsaw puzzle in record time!" Lucy beamed.

"How long did it take you?"

"Well, the box said '3 to 5 Years' but I did it in a month!"

Chain saw

A West Virginian walks into a hardware store and asks for a chain saw that will cut 6 trees in one hour.

The salesman recommends the top of the line model. The West Virginian is suitably impressed, and buys it.

The next day he brings it back, complaining that it would only cut down 1 tree and it took ALL DAY!

The salesman takes the chain saw, starts it up to see what's wrong, and the West Virginian says, "What's that noise?"

Dinner disaster

A couple trying to break into society hosted a dinner party.

As the guests were enjoying their dinner salad, the maid called the hostess from the table. The maid informed her that the cat had climbed on the kitchen table and eaten a large portion of the salmon's mid- section.

The hostess decided to fill the eaten portion with some canned salmon and other camouflage.

As the guests were enjoying the fish, the maid called the hostess into the kitchen and announced while wringing her hands, "Madam, the cat is dead."

The hostess and her husband informed the guests and suggested it might be best if everyone went to the hospital and had their stomachs pumped.

Returning home, the couple asked the maid where she had put the cat. "It is still out on the road where the car ran over it."

The Red Marbles

2010-04-14T13:48:00.002+08:00

I don't know if you guys ever read this story. It had been lying around in my inbox for few months and only now I decided to open and read it and boy did I fell in love with this story. It really did tell me something of life. Hope you enjoy reading it as much as I do.

Forwarded from a friend >>

The Red Marbles

I was at the corner grocery store buying some early potatoes. I noticed a small boy, delicate of bone and feature, ragged but clean, hungrily apprising a basket of freshly picked green peas.

I paid for my potatoes, but was also drawn to the display of fresh green peas. I am a pushover for creamed peas and new potatoes.

Pondering the peas, I couldn't help overhearing the conversation between Mr. Miller (the store owner) and the ragged boy next to me...

'Hello, Barry, how are you today?'

'Hello, Mr. Miller.. Fine, thank you. Just admiring them peas. They sure look good.'

'They are good, Barry. How's your Ma?'

'Fine. Getting stronger all the time.'

'Good. Anything I can help you with?'

'No, Sir. Just admiring the peas..'

'Would you like to take some home?' asked Mr. Miller.

'No, sir. Got nothing to pay for 'em with.'
Well, what have you to trade me for some of those peas?'

'All I have is my prize marble here.'

'Is that right? Let me see it,' said Miller.

'Here 'tis.. She's a dandy.'

'I can see that. Hmm mmm, only thing is this one is blue and I sort of go for red. Do you have a red one like this at home?' the store owner asked.

'Not 'zackley, but almost.'

'Tell you what.. Take this sack of peas home with you and next trip this way let me look at that red marble,' Mr. Miller told the boy.

'Sure will. Thanks, Mr. Miller.'

Mrs. Miller, who had been standing nearby, came over to help me.

With a smile, she said, 'There are two other boys like him in our community, all three are in very poor circumstances. Jim just loves to bargain with them for peas, apples, tomatoes or whatever. When they come back with their red marbles, and they always do, he decides he doesn't like red after all and he sends them home with a bag of produce for a green marble or an orange one, when they come on their next trip to the store.'

I left the store smiling to myself, impressed with this man. A short time later I moved to Colorado , but I never forgot the story of this man, the boys and their bartering for marbles.

Several years went by, each more rapid than the previous one. Just recently I had occasion to visit some old friends in that Idaho community, and while I was there learned that Mr. Miller had died. They were having his visitation that evening, and knowing my friends wanted to go, I agreed to accompany them. Upon arrival at the mortuary, we fell into line to meet the relatives of the deceased and to offer whatever words of comfort we could..

Ahead of us in line were three young men. One was in an army uniform and the other two wore nice haircuts, dark suits and white shirts. All were very professional looking. They approached Mrs. Miller, standing composed and smiling by her husband's casket. Each of the young men hugged her, kissed her on the cheek, spoke briefly with her and moved
on to the casket.

Her misty light blue eyes followed them as, one by one, each young man stopped briefly and placed his own warm hand over the cold pale hand in the casket. Each left the mortuary awkwardly, wiping his eyes.

Our turn came to meet Mrs. Miller. I told her who I was and reminded her of the story from those many years ago and what she had told me about her husband's bartering for marbles. With her eyes glistening, she took my hand and led me to the casket.

'Those three young men who just left were the boys I told you about. They just told me how they appreciated the things Jim 'traded' them.
Now, at last, when Jim could not change his mind about color or size, they came to pay their debt. We've never had a great deal of the wealth of this world,' she confided, 'but right now Jim would consider himself the richest man in Idaho.'

With loving gentleness, she lifted the lifeless fingers of her
deceased husband. Resting underneath were three exquisitely shined red marbles.

Morale of the story: We will not be remembered by our words, but by our kind deeds. Life is not measured by the breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away.

Today I wish you a day of ordinary miracles ~
A fresh pot of coffee you didn't make yourself;
An unexpected phone call from an old friend;
Green stoplights on your way to work; The fastest line at the grocery store;
A good sing-along song on the radio; Your keys found right
where you left them.

IT'S NOT WHAT YOU'VE GATHERED, BUT WHAT YOU'VE SCATTERED THAT TELLS WHAT KIND OF LIFE YOU HAVE LIVED..

Cheers!

What's In My Mind....

2010-03-01T12:13:00.003+08:00

......Right now? I am thinking of opening my own business.

Ever since Little Faith born, I have been thinking of spending more time with her. Well knowing that working mum will only have time to spend with their baby (s) at night or on weekend, having a good time together with your family is very limited. Of course this thought came into my mind because I enjoyed every second taking care of her. I have been thinking of setting up my own business long ago but until now I have not materialize it. One thing because I am not a risk taker. I am not willing to take risk especially with the current economic situation.

Second, I am not creative enough to start a small busniess which only needs your creativity. I know some of you have the talent of baking, sewing, makeup, photography, etc.

Third, the thing I love doing most is event organizing and this business needs a lot of kac-hing to start off with. Where on earth can I look for that bundle of $$? If only it is as easy as playing Petville on facebook.

Well this is not just a dream, I will (God willing) make this a reality. The only question is WHEN?

c ya

4 years and growing

2010-02-05T15:02:00.005+08:00

A chronology of event this Week,

3rd February 2010 , hubby celebrate his 32nd birthday and this time as a daddy. The celebration, well we didn't celebrate as grand as I was planning last year for having this little kid limits the time and of course we cannot go out leaving her at home while she's still breastfeeding right. So yeah this year it's pizza again. Never mind darling, next year we'll celebrate your birthday somewhere else. Who knows we'll celebrate it outside of Malaysia (wishful thinking). Once again Happy Birthday Daddy.

4th February 2010, it's our 4th year wedding anniversary and at the 4th year, we are growing. Thank you God for your blessing, your guidance , the happiness and also the health you grant us. And also thank you for the new addition in our life. Happy Anniversary Dear.

5th February 2010, is my 5th brother Maxmillian Bryan James's 16th Birthday. He requested for a birthday bash this year but I told him I'll make his wish come true once he completed his form five. Of course people say 16 is sweet but it is never as sweet as 17 where at that age you are at the end of your secondary school and you are battling for your future to get good result for SPM. So a birthday bash at his 17th birthday it is. I treat him BK for his birthday this year. Was planning to buy cake for all this 3 events. hmmm let see, I think this is a good excuse for me to buy the cheese cake I have been dreaming of. BTW happy 16th birthday Max.

see ya *hugs*

Faith

2010-01-22T09:06:00.011+08:00

I was suppose to be so free especially in updating my blog but until to date I have only done one post for this year. Now I know, taking care of your own baby is not as easy as abc. But of course I am grateful for the miracle that God gave to me. And its always a joy to me as I see my baby grows day by day.

Talking about growing up, Faith reach her 1 month old being born in this world on the 11th January 2010 but we only celebrate her full moon on the 16th Jan since the 11th falls on Monday. Thanks to all who have made themselves available on that day to attend baby Faith's full moon. Here are some pictures of Faith aka Mika taken during that day. Didn't hire professional photographer but I think this also can la kan.

Thanks to Shermalyn for this beautiful n cute cake. Mika loves it

(mama who's all this people?)

Soon She'll be 2 month old and I will be back to work. I can't imagine how it will be since now I am devoting my time 24 7 for my princess. We'll see how things goes.

Till next post (which I don't know when), hugs.

Here come 2010

2010-01-04T12:48:00.004+08:00

It's 2010 and I have not been a very good blogger for the whole 2009. You can actually count the number of post I've made. Reason being..? I am just plain lazy and blank the whole time through 2009. Hope It won't happen in 2010.I want to be a better person (lame..)

So What actually happen to me the whole year of 2009? after reading both Chegu Carol's and Mimi's blog, I decided I too need to jot down the happening in my life through out 2009. A Year to remember that is.

January - No interesting thing happen. I was counting the days to our breakaway.

February-We decided to start the "getting pregnant" procedure. After my MC last October, I was so depressed that I won't be able to conceive again so I agreed for the painful procedure again. But at the end of February, I received a very disappointing news. There is no visible eggs produced.Need to wait for another cycle for the procedure to be done again.

March-Busy with our church lucky draw. have to sell RM30,000 worth of tickets. Nothing so interesting

April- My 1st Journey out of Malaysia. Well I've been to Singapore in 2008 but it's only a day trip and I can't say that its a real trip right. But this time, We are off to Bandung & Jakarta. A journey to remember and hubby said next trip is Manila. hehehe

May-Found out that I am actually pregnant and it's already 6 weeks. OMG!! Praise the Lord. No wonder My "Auntie" haven't visited me since February. A miracle indeed. A blessing from the above.

June - November - Nothing really interesting happen. Well come to think of it, there is one occasion that really interesting. We organized our class of 90-92 (form 1A to 3A) SMK Datuk Peter Mojuntin reunion. Not everybody manage to make themselves available tho but its a night to remember indeed.

December- I gave birth to a beautiful, healthy, chubby and big baby girl through c-sec. Was advised to do so since she's big. born at 3.975kg. O ya She was born on the 11th Dec 2009 (111209). The Papa and yours truly decide to name her FAITH SINUNDU DULAKIM. A name bearing lots of meaning.

So that's about it. my journey through 2009. not much memories but truly a memorable one. Happy new year 2010.

Why Countdown?

2009-11-09T08:25:00.003+08:00

Almost every blog that I've visited have started their Christmas countdown and it's really exciting. Where can you lift up your Christmas mood if one of it not from your friend's spirit.

This year I am joining the countdown for THREE special occasion which will happen in December and God willing during Christmas time. So what's the occasion? Some of you may have known it and some may not (if there is ever anybody reading my blog that is. LOL). Well as December approaching, yours truly and DH will be getting a Very Special Christmas gift this year (or maybe an early Christmas gift). My EDD for our first child will be on the 25th Of December 2009. A gift from above that we have been waiting for. And what actually happen on the 25th of December every year? yes its Christmas Day. I don't mind giving birth on Christmas day as it is a blessing to my baby. So yeah that's the two occasion which will happen. Erm but wait, did I say Three occasion earlier? Well the third thing happening in December or to be precise on the 26th of December is my beloved sister's Special day. It's her wedding day. Sorry Sis, can't really help you on that particular day but I've make sure I've done my part before the very day.

So yeah that's about it. The three occasion that's making me wanna join the countdown to December this year. Think should put up the countdown meter in this blog as a reminder.

Until next post.

*hugs*

It's to cheer me up that's all

2009-10-22T08:54:00.001+08:00

A Husband and Wife, Both were very happy over the twelve pound baby boy that was born to them, Mr. Brown who could not conceal his delight, called up the editor of a famous newspaper and reported that he became the proud owner of a " Twelve pound nugget of gold".

The editor upon hearing the seemingly extraordinary news was rather hesitant to accept it at its face value. So he sent his star reporter to interview Mr. Brown. When the reporter came, Mr. Brown was away and his wife was alone at home.

The following interesting conversation took place between the reporter and Mrs. Brown:

Reporter : Does Mr. Brown Live here?
Mrs. Brown : Oh! Yes.
Reporter : Is he in?
Mrs. Brown : Why no, he went somewhere.
Reporter : Is it true that he owns a twelve pound nugget of gold?

Mrs. Brown : (Seeing the joke) Yes, indeed.
Reporter : Can I see the place where he found it?
Mrs... Brown : I am afraid, not because Mr. Brown objects in as much as it is strictly private.
Reporter : Is the place far?
Mrs. Brown : No, it is quite near and convenient.
Reporter : How many years has Mr. Brown been digging the hole?
Mrs. Brown : Just for about ten months.
Reporter : Is the hole deep?
Mrs. Brown : Quite so...
Reporter : Has Mr. Brown reached the bottom of it?
Mrs. Brown : Not yet, but he is coming near...
Reporter : At about what time does Mr. Brown starts digging?

Mrs. Brown : Oh, he does his digging mostly at night.
Reporter : Does he work hard on it?
Mrs. Brown : You bet... and how he perspires.
Reporter : Is Mr. Brown the first to dig?
Mrs. Brown : He thought he was...

Reporter : How do you know there was someone ahead of him?
Mrs. Brown : I am in a good position to say so, because I own the place.

Reporter : Oh, I see, but you sold the place to Mr. Brown?
Mrs. Brown : No, but for the present, he has the legal title to the site, with my consent.

Reporter : Has Mr. Brown any helper when he works on the claim?
Mrs. Brown : Yes, I work under him...
Reporter : When do you think Mr. Brown will sell the place?
Mrs. Brown : I think not because he enjoys working on it.

Reporter : Can I see the twelve pound nugget of gold?
Mrs. Brown : Yes, certainly (and she showed him the twelve pound baby boy :-)

The Reporter fainted!

Keep Laughing and Have a Great Day...........................

Desperado

2009-10-02T12:46:00.002+08:00

I am in desperate need to book to read. I really need something to read. Something that interest me like the Shopaholic series or Mag Cabot's Queen of Babble or even Cecelia Ahern's books. I keep on having thought of going to any of the book store to look for two or even three book but with my condition now, I don't think I'll be able to drive or allowed to drive to any of the bookstore. Someone please help me. Life is getting boring each day with out anything interesting to read moreover I am not allowed to do my sewing project for the time being. Helppppp!!! anybody!!!

BTW any of you can give me some suggestion on what book to read? Something like the Shopaholic series?

Gosh I am loosing my mind.

Weekend rumbling

2009-09-12T10:40:00.003+08:00

Ok I have a confession to make.

I am in love again...

Yes and I am in love with ....Ok I maybe too late in falling in love with Meg Cabot but it's never too late right. And as for P.S. I LOVE YOU, I am in a still of reading the book but am already loving it. Here's some summary of the story (where I am sure most of you have read it or even watch the movie. I have not.)

" Some people wait their whole lives to find their soul mates. But not Holly and Gerry.

They were childhood sweethearts - no on could imagine Holly and Gerry without each other.

Until the unthinkable happens. Gerry's death devastates Holly. But as her 30th birthday looms Holly discovers that Gerry has left her a bundle of notes, gently guiding her into her new life without him, each signed 'PS, I Love You'.

With some help from her friends, and her noisy and loving family, Holly finds herself laughing, crying, singing, dancing - and being braver that ever before.

Life is for living, she realises - but it always helps if there's an angel watching over you."

Mag Cabot, I'll look for your other Queen of Babbles series and Cecelia Ahern, can't wait to finish reading this book.

Promise Made to myself

2009-09-01T14:09:00.002+08:00

It's September!!!! Yay for that. But I have to take this as mental note that I REALLY , I mean REALLY need to update my blog. It had been since April that I've properly update this on line Diary of mine.

So here I am today making a promise to myself that I WILL UPDATE ME BLOG.

p/s Someone ever told me that promises are meant to be broken but I try my very best not to follow the norm.

Reporting...still alive

2009-08-06T16:47:00.004+08:00

Yes I am still here.
Still alive hehhee.

Just a little update

Received this through email today from a friend. It called The Future Dating . Come to think of it, scary..

New Purchase

2009-06-03T09:34:00.005+08:00

I have been an avid fan of perfume ever since I can afford one. I always wish for a perfume as my birthday gift or Christmas gift (of course the second choice will be a huge cuddly teddy bear) so as a treat to myself, I purchase this perfume (don't ask me the price *wink* I know somebody knew it).

so next one will be :-

ps/ is this enough for an update? :D

Where...? When...?

2009-05-07T11:23:00.003+08:00

This will be in my next post so stay tuned.. those who recognise this picture would surely know what I am talking about.

Why no update dear..?

2009-05-05T09:24:00.001+08:00

As what I wrote in my previous update, I have not been updating this blog for as long as I can remember it and yesterday Hubby brought up the subject again..

"It seems like you have not been updating you blog."

"Ada juga la. I was thinking I want to update about the trip but can't find the time to upload the pictures" Being me, I give this lame excuses.

So I think when Hubby already talk about it I have to make it a point that I HAVE TO UPDATE MY BLOG. Why do I say this? because he seldom mention about my blog and I don't think he visit my blog that often. Imagine person who seldom read my blog also realize that I don't update. It means that my blog is becoming more and more LAME and BORING. Gosh need to do something about that.

Ok I promise to myself that I WILL UPDATE YOU DEAR DIARY. Soon Really soon...

Update

2009-04-29T12:39:00.002+08:00

I have not been updating my Dear Diary Since Easter and I am not generating or attracting any visitors anymore.. What a sad story right. I have been bitten by the lazy and blank bug ever since I can remember the last time I pour out my mind..

Nevertheless, I have a lot to update here especially my recent breakaway... a wonderful and educational breakaway which I am eager to share but wait till I have the pictures uploaded from my D-Cam and of course until I found my long lost full of idea me.

Till then..

Blessed Holy Week

2009-04-09T12:48:00.001+08:00

To all of my fellow Catholic friends....

Life handbook 101

2009-04-07T16:31:00.004+08:00

Health:

1. Drink plenty of water.
2. Eat breakfast like a king, lunch like a prince and dinner
like a beggar.
3. Eat more foods that grow on trees and plants and eat less
food that is manufactured in plants.
4. Live with the 3 E's -- Energy, Enthusiasm, and Empathy.
5. Make time for prayer.
6. Play more games.
7. Read more books than you did in 2008.
8. Sit in silence for at least 10 minutes each day.
9. Sleep for 7 hours.
10. Take a 10-30 minutes walk every day. And while you walk, smile.

Personality:

11. Don't compare your life to others'. You have no idea what
their journey is all about.
12. Don't have negative thoughts or things you cannot control.
Instead invest your energy in the positive present moment.
13. Don't over do. Keep your limits.
14. Don't take yourself so seriously. No one else does.
15. Don't waste your precious energy on gossip.
16. Dream more while you are awake.
17. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need.
18. Forget issues of the past. Don't remind your partner with his/her
mistakes of the past. That will ruin your present happiness.
19. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone. Don't hate
others.
20. Make peace with your past so it won't spoil the present.
21. No one is in charge of your happiness except you.
22. Realize that life is a school and you are here to learn. Problems
are simply part of the curriculum that appear and fade away like
algebra class but the lessons you learn will last a lifetime.
23. Smile and laugh more.
24. You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.

Society:

25. Call your family often.
26. Each day give something good to others.
27. Forgive everyone for everything.
28. Spend time with people over the age of 70 & under the age of 6.
29. Try to make at least three people smile each day.
30. What other people think of you is none of your business.
31. Your job won't take care of you when you are sick. Your
family and friends will. Stay in touch.

Life:

32. Do the right thing!
33. Get rid of anything that isn't useful, beautiful or joyful.
34. GOD heals everything.
35. However good or bad a situation is, it will change.
36. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.
37. The best is yet to come.
38. When you awake alive in the morning, thank GOD for it.

39. Your Inner most is always happy. So, be happy.

an inspiration which I nee to keep in mind myself.. Have a wonderful day ahead.

what's In my mind

2009-03-30T13:47:00.001+08:00

I am deeply hurt....

Don't want to talk about it...

My heart is bleeding profusely...

and I am crying inside...

lets see how I handle it...

Till then life ain't that beautiful MOST of the time right..

Saving the planet

2009-03-28T09:28:00.004+08:00

Are you joining the Earth Hour tonight at 8.30 to 9.30 pm? I am sure will..

Surely most of you have known about this worldwide call to switch off lights for one hour right? Well what harm it will do to us if we join the campaign? No harm at all. We will even show our concern on the global climate change. Don't you agree with me that nowadays it is super-dupper hot outside especially in the afternoon? Something clearly need to be done. Lets start saving the world from this simplest step. Join the Earth Hour and help a step to make this world a better place to live.

Sakit Hati

2009-03-20T15:00:00.004+08:00

I am stressed out...too stress that I feel like talking nonsense and typing away without checking the spelling..

Since it is advent, I restrict myself from talking bad things so I just post this pantun yang menyakitkan hati.

Buah cempedak di luar pagar
Ambil galah tolong jolokkan
Kenapa kau nak jolok pakai galah
Sebab cempedak tu dah jatuh kat luar pagar .

Kalau ada sumur di ladang
Bolehlah hamba menumpang mandi
Patutlah bau badan kau busuk semacam
Bilik air ada, buat apa kau mandi kat ladang..

Pisang emas dibawa berlayar
Masak sebiji di atas peti
at pasaraya tak ada hutang hutang
Kalau nak, bayar, Cash On Delivery

Kalau ada jarum yang patah
Jangan di simpan di dalam peti
Kesian betul dengan kau ni
Jarum patah pun kau simpan dalam peti.

Dua tiga kucing berlari
Mana nak sama si kucing belang
Kalau kau berani kejarlah kucing tu
Mesti kau kena cakar sampai berbelang-belang gak..

Kajang Pak Malau kajang berlipat
Kajang hamba mengkuang layu
Kain Pak Malau, Mak Limah yang lipat
Kain aku, si pencuri yang sapu

Rumah Pak Mamat di tepi sawah
Pakai langsir berwarna biru
Ooi Pak Mat, langsir warna biru tak lawa lah
Pakailah warna kuning ke, hijau ke, kelabu asap ke.

Air pasang dalam surut pukul lima
Nyonya bangun pagi siram pokok bunga
Haloo nyonya, mau tanya sikit
Siram pokok bunga aje, tak jual sayur ka?

uai padi antara masak
Esok jangan layu-layuan
Kalau padi tu belumlah masak
Janganlah tuai, taklah layu-layuan. .

Limau purut masak di dahan
Batang selasih condong uratnya
Limau purut tak boleh makan
Nanti sakit perut apa ubatnya.

Pulau Pandan jauh ke tengah
Gunung Daik bercabang tiga
Buat apa nak ke Pulau Pandan yang jauh tu
Pergi aje ke Kampung Pandan

Sorong papan tarik padan
Buah keranji dalam perahu
Tolonglah jangan makan buah keranji tu
Nanti badan kau orang berbau.

Hayya Cik Siti, perempuan banyak muda
Ana banyak takut jalan tutup mata
Memanglah takut kalau jalan tutup mata
Sebab takut terpijak lubang Indah Water

Encik Baba jatuh dalam parit
Cik Aminah ketawa jerit jerit
Sampai hati Cik Aminah ketawakan saya jerit-jerit
Mentang-mentanglah saya jatuh dalam parit

Buai laju laju
Sampai pokok sena
Woii, jangan buai laju-laju
Nanti kang tercampak kat pokok sena

Timang tinggi-tinggi
Sampai cucur atap
Cucur atap tak sedap
Cucuk pisang, cucur udang, haaa tu sedap

Desperately

2009-03-17T08:50:00.005+08:00

Yes I desperately need something new to amuse me.

I desperately need a project to do to really occupy my mind.. At this moment I only have my piles of office work to do and that's it. I am getting more and more active in accumulating fats and gray hair.
Please anybody out there or whoever out there, help me!!! or anyone wanna sponsor me an SLR so that I can go photo hunting.. hehehe

HELP!!!!!!!

Bulan empat is April

2009-03-14T10:44:00.002+08:00

Two more weeks and it's April...

I can't wait for that month to finally come...
I have a lot to do at work that I wish the time can wait for me but still I can't wait for April to come. Not that I can't wait to fool someone, nor does it's the month I was born (I am June baby...*wink..wink*) but something that I am about to do which makes me can't wait for Dear Ms April to come...

*talking to me self*.. sabar...sabar..keep yourself busy and without knowing it, it's already April..

Winning 4D

2009-03-14T09:07:00.003+08:00

I always receive emails asking to forward that email to friends and if I do, I will get my wish granted.I never believe in such things actually. Imagine how can your wish be granted by just forwarding emails and doing nothing after that?

I receive this email from a friend today and wonders how true it is. I didn't forward it though. How great it is if you just need to forward email and you will get moolah.If it does happen, then I think I will resign from my gray hair breeder work, and proceed with building up my own business. After all I'll be getting the capital from the email I have forwarded right.

Take a look at this email and tell be what do you think guys. Don't you wish it's true...I know I do..
_____________________________________________________________________

I ' m not breaking this just in case.......... I think we all need this angel to come through for us.

649 or Millionaire for Life
Money Angel

This is a money angel
Pass it to 6 of your good friends, or family and be richer in 4 Days.
Pass it to 12 of your good friends. or family and be richer in 2 Days.

I am not joking. You will find an unexpected windfall.
Don ' t delete it - trust me!!!
____________________________________________________________________________________

Can't wait to meet you

2009-02-28T09:28:00.002+08:00

No... Dear Hubby is all the while with yours truly if that's what you guys are thinking...

It had been like 17 years ago we were together, laughing, making fun of others, quarrel and stressed up.. and we are going to meet soon.. after 17 years.. I am so excited and can't wait for the day to come..

If you are thinking that I am talking about a long lost Ex, well you are wrong again. I am actually talking about my ex-classmate of form 3 Amanah of SMK Datuk Peter Mojuntin, Penampang. As always, after we completed our SRP (now PMR) exam, almost all of us went our separate ways. some join the science class, some join the Commerce class, and some even transfer to other school. Those were the time that all of us were really close. We have the same "head" and we were the most notable class in cleanliness, noise and of course brain. oh not forgetting sport also.

We will be having a launch mini gathering at the Imperial Hotel on the 9th March 2009. So for those ex-classmate of ours, as I have shout in FB, please confirm your attendence. I am sure we will see a lot of differences in each other. Can;t wait to see you guys and Mr. Adrian, your duty is to draw a cartoon on this event ya.Meaning your attendence is a MUST.

Oh before I forgot, the organizer said that this is strictly the CLASSMATE only and no family members.hehheehehe jangan marah but we need the "OUR OWN TIME" first then meet the family...

How much does it cost?

2009-02-20T16:49:00.001+08:00

A little girl went

to her bedroom and pulled a glass jelly jar from its hiding place in the closet.
She poured the change out on the floor and counted it carefully. Three times. The total had to be exactly perfect. No chance here for mistakes.

Carefully placing the coins back in the jar and twisting on the cap, she slipped out the back door and made her way 6 blocks to Rexall's Drug Store with the big red Indian Chief sign above the door.

She waited patiently for the pharmacist to give her some attention, but he was too busy at this moment.Tess twisted her feet to make a scuffing noise. Nothing. She cleared her throat with the most disgusting sound she could muster. No good. Finally she took aquarter from her jar and banged it on the glass counter. That did it!

'And what do you want?' the pharmacist asked in an annoyed tone of voice. I'm talking to my brother from Chicago whom I haven't seen in ages,' he said without waiting for a reply to his question.

'Well, I want to talk to you about my brother,' Tess answered back in the same annoyed tone. 'He's really, really sick...and I want to buy a miracle.'

'I beg your pardon?'said the pharmacist.

'His name is Andrew and he has something bad growing inside his head and my Daddy says only a miracle can save him now So how much does a miracle cost?'

'We don't sell miracles here, little girl. I'm sorry but I can't help you,' the pharmacist said, softening a little.

'Listen, I have the money to pay for it. If it isn't enough, I will get the rest. Just tell me ho w much it costs.'

The pharmacist's brother was a well dressed man. He stooped down and asked the little girl, 'What kind of a miracle does your brother need?'

' I don't know,' Tess replied with her eyes welling up. I just know he's really sick and Mommy says he needs an operation. But my Daddy can't pay for it, so I want to use my money.'

'How much do you have?' asked the man from Chicago

'One dollar and eleven cents,' Tess answered barely audible.

'And it's all the money I have, but I can get some more if I need to.'

'Well, what a coincidence,' smiled the man. 'A dollar and eleven cents---the exact price of a miracle for little brothers. '
He took her money in one hand and with the other hand he grasped her mitten and said 'Take me to where you live. I want to see your brother and meet your parents. Let's see if I have the miracle you need.'

That well dressed man was Dr. Carlton Armstrong, a surgeon,specializing in neuro-surgery. The operation was completed free of charge and it wasn't long until Andrew was home again and doing well.

Mom and Dad were happily talking about the chain of events that had led them to this place.

'That surgery,' her Mom whispered. 'was a real miracle. I wonder how much it would have cost?'

Tess smiled. She knew exactly how much a miracle cost..one dollar and eleven cents....plus the faith of a little child.

In our lives, we never know how many miracles we will need.
A miracle is not the suspension of natural law, but the operation of a higher law.

I know you'll keep the ball moving!
Here it goes. Throw it back to someone who means something to you!

A ball is a circle, no beginning, no end. It keeps us together like our Circle of Friends. But the treasure inside for you to see is the treasure of friendship you've granted to me.

Today I pass the friendship ball to you.
Pass it on to someone who is a friend to you.
MY OATH TO YOU...
When you are sad.....I will dry your tears.
When you are scared.....I will comfort your fears.
When you are worried.....I will give you hope.
When you are confused......I will help you cope.
And when you are lost...And can't see the light, I shall be your beacon.... Shining ever so bright.
This is my oath.....I pledge till the end.
Why you may ask?....Because you're my friend.

Signed: GOD

Name Tag

2009-02-17T20:57:00.003+08:00

I was tagged by my FB friend and as Shemah did, I also decide to do this tag here in my blog..(you know why)..

Rules:

It's harder than it looks! Copy to your own note, erase my answers, enter yours, and tag ten people. Use the first letter of your name to answer each of the following questions. They have to be real...nothing made up! If the person before you had the same first initial, you must use different answers. You cannot use any word twice and you can't use your name for the boy/girl name question.

1. What is your name : Quirin

2. A five Letter Word : Quick

3. A boy's Name : Qayyum ( as what I came across in UJANG comic)

4. A girl's Name : Qistina (Love this name though)

5. An occupation : Quantity Surveyor

6. A color : hmmmm... here goes the difficult part.. I can't think of any

7. Something you'll wear : a fashion diva I am not so can't think of one

9. A food : Quaker Oats (can this be accepted? Mesti laaaaa)

10. Something found in the bathroom: Quadrangular soap. (LOL)

11. A place : Queensland

12. A reason for being late : Queue very long la

13. Something you'd shout : Quiet!!!!

14. A movie title : Quarantine

15. Something you drink : Quick drink (HAHAHAHAHAHA)

16. A musical group : Queen

17. An animal : Quail

18. A street name : Queen street..(ada kah?)

19. A type of car : Quantum (saja la bagi nama heheh)

20. The title of a song : Que Sera Sera

I am not going to tag anybody so those of you who wish to do this tag, please do so ya..

Today in me

2009-02-17T12:46:00.003+08:00

* We have been working in a not very conducive office for more than 1 week now. The aircond is out and it is damn hot in the office..and I am sweating like nobody business.

* I have to settle a lot of outstanding claims and bear with a very high demand from the higher management. Think need to go for plastic surgery and add another two sets of hand and bigger RAM in my brain...

* My internet line have finally been restored but UNFORTUNATELY I am unable to excess FB.. WHAT?! the site have been blocked? Come on.. We still do our work what... Dear IT people, if any of you reading this, please let us have the excess to FB.. pleaseeeeee...

* Hubby is at home sick. He is having gastric attack and I am worried here in the office. Can't wait to go home and nurse him...

*What am I talking about? I don't know, its just that I have nothing interesting to write about and I am soooooo stressed...

IT's in the air

2009-02-14T10:08:00.013+08:00

Note : This is a very belated post..

When I was still at a very young age of teenagers, Valentine's Day is most of the awaited day where at that point of time you'll know if there is anybody keeping an eye on you.

I have a lot of funny and worth been written down in our life journal memories on this very day those days. However one thing that I never received is "Life" flowers. I still remember one of the close friend said to me.."sorry aaa bunga plastik saja. Mahal bah bunga hidup" (sorry only fake flowers. Can't afford those real flowers).. hehehe lucu kan siap got defence statment lagi.

But as years goes by, for me Valentine's day is just another day. I just wish that today I can be with those people that I really care about and meet my friends. So Happy St. Valentine's Day to all of you.

LOVE IS IN THE AIR

A year wiser

2009-02-03T09:53:00.002+08:00

February is the month of memory to me. 3 years ago in the month of February, I got married to my childhood friend. Three years ago, a day before my wedding is my future husband’s (now of course my hubby..ngeh..ngeh) 28^th Birthday and the day is Today.

This post is dedicated especially to my dear Husband, Mr. Adie Adrian Boniface. Happy 31^st Birthday to you Darling.. Here I am giving you a virtual present as an opening of showers of present to you.

My Valentine

If there were no words
No way to speak
I would still hear you

If there were no tears
No way to feel inside
I'd still feel for you

And even if the sun refuse to shine
Even if romance ran out of rhyme
You would still have my heart
Until the end of time
You're all i need
My love, my valentine

All of my life
I have been waiting for
All you give to me
You've opened my eyes
And showed me how to love unselfishly

I've dreamed of this a thousand times before
In my dreams i couldnt love you more
I will give you my heart
Until the end of time
You're all i need
My love, my valentine

And even if the sun refuse to shine
Even if romance ran out of rhyme
You would still have my heart
Until the end of time
Cuz all i need
Is you, my valentine

You're all i need
My love, my valentine

(This is our wedding theme song)

Hair issue

2009-02-03T08:50:00.005+08:00

note : This post is actually dated 2nd February 2009.

It's not EVERYDAY that I love the way my hair act. But today Ms. Hair is just behaving the way she was suppose to behave.
The only thing that I need to do now is to get some treatment for her and I am sure she will always behave as what she was suppose to do.Was thinking of straightening her but hubby said I have been wearing straight hair ever since. So that's mean a no no to rebonding. Maybe I'll be getting a digital perm (that's so out to date fashion right? no?)

........errrrr... what am I talking about? nothing. Just a simple Monday mumbling..

good day peeps

The child in me

2009-01-31T10:01:00.007+08:00

Working from 8am to 5pm and only reaching home at around 6pm to 7pm, I can't continue with my Cross stitch project. It had been left lying in the box for several month now. Well I make sure that I won't do any sewing at night for I spoil my eyesight.

I am actually giving tuition also (just to get the extra moola you know). But at this moment, since my brother got nothing to do at home and while he waits for his next intake to enter the IPTA, so I've passed the responsibility to him (with my full supervision that is). So what am I left to do at night before going to sleep? Finish reading all the books and waiting to get hold of a new and interesting story book ( I get bored easily reading books that doesnot excite me). I am left with only this option :-

PLAY PC GAME!!! (I don't like playing those Playstation thingy)

At the moment I have finish playing this game

The Mystery Case Files: Return To Ravenhearst, the third series of MCFs. Emma Ravenhearst's soul is freed, but she needs your help to prevent evil from taking her soul. The quality of games is top notched from beginning to end with masterpiece sound track and stunning artwork. This massive MCF games deserve to get top attention and is worth checking it out.

With over 150 levels and puzzles to solve, you have to solve each level completely before moving on to next level. Use magnetfying glass, clues, and inventory you have collected to solve each puzzle. The casebook keep track of all the assignments and clues for each turning point. There is no time limit to solve each puzzle.

A very addictive game that is and currently I am playing this game

Can't wait to finish this game for I still have loads of Hidden objects game waiting for me.

O BTW is that considered that I still have the child mind in me?

Another friendship thingy

2009-01-23T17:12:00.005+08:00

IN honor of women's history month and in memory of Erma Bombeck who lost her fight with cancer. Here is an 'angel' sent to watch over you.

IF I HAD MY LIFE TO LIVE OVER - by Erma Bombeck
(written after she found out she was dying from cancer).
I would have gone to bed when

I was sick instead of pretending the earth would go into a holding pattern if

I weren't there for the day.
I would have burned the pink candle sculpted like a rose before it melted in storage.
I would have talked less and listened more.
I would have invited friends over to dinner even if the carpet was stained, or the sofa faded.
I would have eaten the popcorn in the 'good' living room and worried much less about the dirt when someone wanted to light a fire in the fireplace.
I would have taken the time to listen to my grandfather ramble about his youth.
I would have shared more of the responsibility carried by my husband.
I would never have insisted the car windows be rolled up on a summer day because my hair had just been teased and sprayed.
I would have sat on the lawn with my grass stains.
I would have cried and laughed less while watching television and more while watching life.
I would never have bought anything just because it was practical, wouldn't show soil, or was guaranteed to last a lifetime.
Instead of wishing away nine months of pregnancy, I'd have cherished every moment and realized that the wonderment growing inside me was the only chance in life to assist God in a miracle.
When my kids kissed me impetuously, I would never have said, 'Later. Now go get washed up for dinner.' There would have been more 'I love you's' More 'I'm sorry's.'
But mostly, given another shot at life, I would seize every minute.look at it and really see it . . live it and never give it back.

STOP SWEATING THE SMALL STUFF!!!
Don't worry about who doesn't like you, who has more, or who's doing what
Instead, let's cherish the relationships we have with those who do love us.

Things you do when you're bored

2009-01-15T16:56:00.001+08:00

Create Fake Magazine Covers with your own picture at MagMyPic.com

my pet

2009-01-15T16:31:00.001+08:00

Go get your own

Page Pets & MySpace Layouts

Changes needed

2009-01-15T16:12:00.001+08:00

Glitter Graphics Maker & MySpace Layouts

Dragging this heavy body

2009-01-13T22:15:00.003+08:00

I am sick. No headache (Thank God to that) but my body ache all over...

Think should get a goodnight rest for I need to clean my office tomorrow..(A good excercise for a heavy body)..

Good Night peeps... arrgghh sakitnya tulang2 ni

24th ya

2009-01-10T09:27:00.005+08:00

This is actually a birthday shout out to a lady who is celebrating her 24th Birthday today.. I might not be able to give you the "ACTUAL" birthday gift that you've asked for but I am definitely able to post a shout out here and give you a virtual present.

here's wishing you

HAPPY 24th Birthday

O this birthday wishes is especially to Ms. Olnetta Jiliwin of My life is between me, myself & I

p/s Also a wish to those of you who are celebrating your birthday, wedding or anniversary today. I know someone is getting married today

Mi Maggie cepat di masak Sedap di makan

2009-01-08T09:15:00.003+08:00

This is the ever favourite rhyme we sang when we are still children and I still remember the pain of having to eat Maggie everyday while in Uni due to financial constrain.

I have heard about the instant noodles coated with wax to make it forever crispy. When I entered into the working world, Money is still the thing that you need to save for you are eying on buying things you have been dreaming off. I remember one of my colleague told me the best way to cook instant noodles and told me that the instant noodles actually coated with wax so I have been following the instruction ever since (Without believing that its true that is). Little did I know that it is actually true and IT IS the CORRECT METHOD to cook instant noodles. I received this email few days back and want to share with all of you.

Well guys, time to change the norm and live a healthy life.

"CORRECT WAY OF COOKING NOODLES"

The correct way to cook instant noodles without harming our bodies

and health. `Normally, how we cook the instant noodles is to put the

noodles into a pot with water, throw in the powder and let it cook for

around 3 minutes and then it's ready to eat.

This is the WRONG method of cooking the instant noodles. By doing this,

when we actually boil the ingredients in the powder, normally with MSG,

it will change the molecular structures of the MSG causing it to be

toxic. The other thing that you may or may not realize is that, the

noodles are coated with wax and it will take around 4 to 5 days for the

body to excrete the wax after you have taken the noodles.

CORRECT METHOD

1. boil the noodles in a pot with water.

2. once the noodles is cooked, take out the noodles, and Pour away the water which contains wax .

3. boil another pot of water till boiling and put the noodles into the hot boiling water and then shut the fire.

4. only at this stage when the fire is off, and while the water is very hot, put the ingredient with the powder into the water, to make noodle soup.

5. however, if you need dry noodles, take out the noodles and add the

ingredient with the powder and toss it to get dry noodles.





Chio

Welcome 2009

2009-01-05T15:15:00.003+08:00

I know I am 5 days late of wishing you guys Happy New Year 2009 right.... Well never too late as soon of my fellow blogger said as people are still wishing you Happy New Year and we've just entered the 5th day of 2009 right.

So here again wishing each and everyone of you

" HAPPY NEW YEAR!"

Blessed Christmas..

2008-12-25T02:03:00.003+08:00

... to all of you dearie friends

and wonderful New Year 2009 ahead..

Make wishes come true

2008-12-20T17:03:00.003+08:00

Christmas is just around the corner. In exact counting, it is 6 days left for Christmas. Time really flies. I have done half of the Christmas shopping. Well it is only of the present shopping though. I still remember when I was just a little kid, waiting eagerly under the beautiful decorated Christmas tree to receive presents and hoping that all my wishes will come through inside the presents. Sometimes it does come through but most of the times you just have to accept what ever it is inside the boxes. I really wish I have picture taken of us. There must be hundreds of faces expressions you can see. Be it a happy face, or a disappointed face.

Now it is even easy to store your pictures. You don’t have to print it out. You can buy those digital frames and it can even store a lot of your pictures. More over, you don’t have to flip it over as the pictures will change as per the time set. As easy as that? Yes.. I stumble into this website "got a wish" that tells you about this digital frame. I think this is a perfect gift. Oh and this frame can receive pictures through the net. That wondeful.

I will surely buy this frame but wait, I don’t think my paypal account is enough (not being doing any paid post and my account have dried up from the heavy usage). What shall I do? I wish that I am a resident of the United States or Washington D.C. You see, CEIVA Digital Photo Frame is organizing a contest amd as a winner, you will receive $500.

got a wish ? Visit the above web sites and enter the contest. You got to sits on santa's lap you know

All I want..

2008-12-18T09:11:00.006+08:00

... for Christmas is ;-

"I don't want a lot for Christmas,
There is just one thing I need,
I don't care about the presents,
Underneath the Christmas tree,
I Just want you for my own,
More than you can ever know,
Make my wish come true,
all I want for Christmas is.......
YOU"

* A wonderful day with Hubby (which we never have the chance to spent our us time with all the responsibilities)
* To see lots of happy faces receiving their presents
* Feels the Christmas spirit again (Since I think I lost it long time ago)
* And the most important thing is I want this for Christmas....

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but if it is impossible to get this (which I think "it is" Impossible), this also can lah :D
p/s This message is especially dedicated to.... you know who. lol :D *wink*

> _ <

2008-12-16T11:00:00.005+08:00

What a hectic weekend last weekend.. I didn't get to spend the "me" time and I was way too tired to even switch on the PC (though hubby switch it on for him to update his premier league and FB)..

I went for the PTD PAC assessment at Intan Sabah Campus and gosh it was really tiring.. well tiring for me since I haven't been exercising for the past 6 month (duh..) We have to do sit ups, pumping and all under the hot sun.. just imagine what my face will look like now..(burning!!) and as early as 4.00 am, a group of us went to fishing (mesti la di laut kan...--> this one I love. :)). The sad thing is to see the coral which is not as beautiful as it is before. Blame it to the human being for destroying it.

Well that will be all. Boring update right.. well yeah..

p/s Chirstmas is just next week and I haven't done any Christmans shooping yet.. Guess no new dress this year either but need to shop for the christmas present....budget..budget..

The nature in me

2008-12-08T11:30:00.005+08:00

Capturing and looking at beautiful pictures of flowers and nature is what I love so filling up the holiday with something useful (if can be considered one) is what I did...

Presenting the nature:-

(Just Ignore the fat hand lol:D)

Another breakaway

2008-12-04T20:46:00.005+08:00

Remember I ever blog about my short breakaway to JB and Singapore somewhere in August? Well last week was my yet another “SHORT” breakaway and this time its local as in within the Land Below The Wind.

Well its actually an engagement trip. You see, Hubby’s cousin is the main figure for this trip actually. He’s getting engaged with a Labuan lass. Congratulations to Mr. Ivan Lai and Fiancée Ms. Bernadette (forgot the surname). However, we took this opportunity to la tour de Labuan.. hehehehe A simple breakaway that is.

My last visit to Labuan is where back in 2003 or 2004 can’t remember but its on working visit and for only about ½ day. I still remember my 1st visit to Labuan Island. It was somewhere in the late 90’s and we went there by Ferry Labuan. A journey which I don’t want to remember cause I vomited all the way to Labuan and from Labuan. What a journey. Last weekend however, we use the Menumbuk-Labuan Ferry which took us 1 ½ hour to reach each destinations. Tiring journey indeed, but this time I really enjoy it.

Enough said. This is the picture taken using my canon Powershot A470 (kesian kan not even slr *sob..sob*) …. A memorable “short” breakaway..

Lama lagi ka mau sampai ni? (Ms. Juliet of What's Hot)

(on our way home..ni la kerja gila bergambar siring jalan tengah panas)

p/s who want to join me to Jakarta next year? This one will surely be a long 8 days breakaway.

Be aware - Pink Sisterhood

2008-11-26T11:32:00.004+08:00

Hannie of Hannie Daily Muses tag me on this Pink Sisterhood (better do it fast or else it will pile up right?). As always this is an awareness shout out to all of us women. A routine check up must be done to prevent such things from happening. No excuses. So ladies, do your job.

And now here is the tag and the rules:

1. Put the logo in your blog.
2. Add a link to the person who shared it with you.
3. Nominate at least 7 other blogs
4. Leave a message for your nominee on their blog. I would like to share this with: -

*Cindy of Forever Tulip
*Juliet of What's Hot
*Mimi Ahmad of Loving My Life
*Joy of Aramai Tie
*Nessa of Nessa Mumbling
*Emily of Chronicle of a Taureen lady
* Chegu Carol of The Guru-guru life

Again lets spreed the news.

Maybe you can help others or even Me

2008-11-26T11:05:00.007+08:00

I heard a lot of stories of people being attack by stroke and nothing can be done by people around him or her to help them.

My friend sent this to me and encouraged me to post it and spread the word. I agree. If everyone can remember something this simple, we could save some folks.

STROKE: Remember The 1st Three Letters... S.T.R .

STROKE IDENTIFICATION:
During a BBQ, a friend stumbled and took a little fall - she assured everyone that she was fine and just tripped over a brick because of her new shoes. (they offered to call ambulance)
They got her cleaned up and got her a new plate of food - while she appeared a bit shaken up, Ingrid went about enjoying herself the rest of the evening. Ingrid's husband called later telling everyone that his wife had been taken to the hospital - (at 6:00pm , Ingrid passed away.)
She had suffered a stroke at the BBQ. Had they known how to identify the signs of a stroke, perhaps Ingrid would be with us today.

Some don't die. They end up in a helpless, hopeless condition instead. It only takes a minute to read this...

STROKE IDENTIFICATION:

A neurologist says that if he can get to a stroke victim within 3 hours he can totally reverse the effects of a stroke...totally. He said the trick was getting a stroke recognized, diagnosed, and then getting the patient medically cared for within 3 hours, which is tough.

RECOGNIZING A STROKE

Remember the '3' steps, STR . Read and Learn!

Sometimes symptoms of a stroke are difficult to identify. Unfortunately, the lack of awareness spells disaster. The stroke victim may suffer severe brain damage when people nearby fail to recognize the symptoms of a stroke.
Now doctors say a bystander can recognize a stroke by asking three simple questions:

S * Ask the individual to SMILE .
T * = TALK. Ask the person to SPEAK A SIMPLE SENTENCE (Coherently) (eg 'It is sunny out today').
R * Ask him or her to RAISE BOTH ARMS .

If he or she has trouble with ANY ONE of these tasks, call for an ambulance immediately!! and describe the symptoms to the dispatcher.
NOTE : Another 'sign' of a stroke is

1.Ask the person to 'stick' out their tongue.

2. If the tongue is 'crooked', if it goes to one side or the other that is also an indication of a stroke.

Its good to know so that we can at least help someone in need right?

Getting prepared

2008-11-25T10:36:00.003+08:00

Since I start my treatment with my Gyne, I was given almost one year supply of folic acid which I thought all this while only to be consumed by women who are pregnant. Little did I know the reason behind it. After taking it for one year then only now I google the use of Folic acid and I found this site:-

Kids Health

And this is what I found out about Folic Acid:-
(text copied from This site)

Having a healthy baby means making sure you're healthy, too. One of the most important things you can do to help prevent serious birth defects in your baby is to get enough folic acid every day - especially before conception and during early pregnancy.

What Is Folic Acid?

Folic acid, sometimes called folate, is a B vitamin (B9) found mostly in leafy green vegetables like kale and spinach, orange juice, and enriched grains. Repeated studies have shown that women who get 400 micrograms (0.4 milligrams) daily prior to conception and during early pregnancy reduce the risk that their baby will be born with a serious neural tube defect (a birth defect involving incomplete development of the brain and spinal cord) by up to 70%.

The most common neural tube defects are spina bifida (an incomplete closure of the spinal cord and spinal column), anencephaly (severe underdevelopment of the brain), and encephalocele (when brain tissue protrudes out to the skin from an abnormal opening in the skull). All of these defects occur during the first 28 days of pregnancy - usually before a woman even knows she's pregnant.

That's why it's so important for all women of childbearing age to get enough folic acid - not just those who are planning to become pregnant. Only 50% of pregnancies are planned, so any woman who could become pregnant should make sure she's getting enough folic acid.
Doctors and scientists still aren't completely sure why folic acid has such a profound effect on the prevention of neural tube defects, but they do know that this vitamin is crucial in the development of DNA. As a result, folic acid plays a large role in cell growth and development, as well as tissue formation.

Getting Enough Folic Acid

The U.S. Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) recommends that all women of childbearing age - and especially those who are planning a pregnancy - consume about 400 micrograms (0.4 milligrams) of folic acid every day. Adequate folic acid intake is very important 1 month before conception and at least 3 months afterward to potentially reduce the risk of having a fetus with a neural tube defect.

So, how can you make sure you're getting enough folic acid? In 1998, the Food and Drug Administration mandated that folic acid be added to enriched grain products - so you can boost your intake by looking for breakfast cereals, breads, pastas, and rice containing 100% of the recommended daily folic acid allowance. But for most women, eating fortified foods isn't enough. To reach the recommended daily level, you'll probably need a vitamin supplement.

During pregnancy, you require more of all of the essential nutrients than you did before you became pregnant. Although prenatal vitamins shouldn't replace a well-balanced diet, taking them can give your body - and, therefore, your baby - an added boost of vitamins and minerals. Some health care providers even recommend taking a folic acid supplement in addition to your regular prenatal vitamin. Talk to your doctor about your daily folic acid intake and ask whether he or she recommends a prescription supplement, an over-the-counter brand, or both.

Also talk to your doctor if you've already had a pregnancy that was affected by a neural tube defect. He or she may recommend that you increase your daily intake of folic acid (even before getting pregnant) to lower your risk of having another occurrence.

Now I know why.. hehehe being the ignorant me

Help I am Addicted!!!

2008-11-18T08:37:00.005+08:00

I have to blame Cindy on this addiction that I am having now. Yes you hear me right. I am addicted and it keeps on bugging me if I didn't touch it for even a few minutes...

Well can't really balme you right Cindy? You just invite and I accepted it.

What exactly am I talking about? well it is actually this:-

Pet Society (damn I don't know how to import the picture to show to you guys here)

And yes you can find it in facebook. You can race, go shopping for all your house and personal accessories, feed other's pet and a whole lot more.Who else want to join me? come and fill up the village.

Acknowledgement...

2008-10-29T10:22:00.002+08:00

I've seen a lot of people who really work hard i accomplishing certain projects. They really put their heart and soul to make sure the project runs smooth and successfully. I've known some people who didn't care how much money they spent and how tired they are just for the sake of the success of the project. I enjoy working with people like that.

However, after seeing the sacrifices of these beautiful people, one of their assistance head of the project blame them for not doing enough just because he or she is unable to attend one ceremony which makes them have to take over the duty and its turn out to be in a mess.

What do you feel when every time there is something need to be done you are left alone to think what to do and yet when it is well done your head get the thumbs up but if it is not up to the standard you are the one who will have to take the blame because you are the one who do it. Fair enough if your superior said that you didn't do great so they get the blame but have they ever think that they never help in the process?

I've seen this one person work and know how hard he/she tried. I've seen the amount of money pour out to make things possible and the amount of time spend to the project and yet his/her assistance head said that he/she didn't do enough to help them. The head didn't do anything or said anything to clear the air. He just sit there and listen. Fair enough if he don't want to side anybody but he have to comment. Don't just let someone's heart hurt.

What will you do if you really feel that you have work hard enough and sacrifice enough to help your group and yet they blame you of not doing enough? Not even a Thank you. When you help does not mean you want to be given an award. Enough if you say thanks and acknowledge what they have done. Why want to say "You have not done enough and we know you didn't tried you best". I don't blame the group member to back away and feel hurt for I can feel the hurt.

What say you?

Just a simple update

2008-10-28T08:53:00.002+08:00

It had been a while since I last updated this dear diary of mine. Life have been crazy around me these few weeks. A lots of ups and downs which thanks to the support from people around me, I am still here standing strong.

That's what life is all about and life must goes one right? no?...

I know a lot of you fellow bloggers are starting to plan and prepare for christmas..The Jolly Season for us. I myself are looking forward for it for it means end of the year and more work need to be settled for the year end closing. Life will be more hectic for me and I want to look for something which can help me to be myself again.

Enough said now. I need to start my daily routine of month end closing and gosh I have to do my 2008 budget.. chow and will update soon.

small talk :- some comment needed in my next post. So guys get your emotion and brilliant brain warm-up.

~ ^ ~

2008-10-10T08:17:00.004+08:00

Goodbye darling. I know GOD is taking good care of you up there. I'll try not to cry because I have faith that you are better of with HIM.

I will always love you.

To release the tense

2008-09-30T13:14:00.002+08:00

Here are six reasons why you should think before you speak - The last one is great!
Have you ever spoken and wished that you could
Immediately take the words back...
Or that you could crawl into a hole?
Here are the Testimonials of a few people who did....

FIRST TESTIMONY:
I walked into a hair salon with my husband and three kids in towAnd asked loudly, 'How much do you charge for a shampoo and a blow job?' I turned around and walked back out and never went back. My husband didn't say a word...He knew better.

SECOND TESTIMONY:I was at the golf store comparing different kinds of golf balls. I was unhappy with the women's type I had been using. After browsing for several minutes, I was approached by one of the good-looking gentlemen who works at the store. He asked if he could help me. Without thinking, I looked at him and said, 'I think I like playing with mens balls'

THIRD TESTIMONY:
My sister and I were at the mall and Passed by a store that sold aVariety of candy and nuts. As we were looking at the display case, The boy behind the counter asked if we needed any help. I replied, 'No, I'm just looking at your nuts.'

My sister started to laugh hysterically.The boy grinned, and I turned beet-red and walked away. To this day, My sister has never let me forget.

FOURTH TESTIMONY:
While in line at the bank one afternoon, My toddler decided to releaseSome pent-up energy and ran amok. I was finally able to grab hold ofHer after receiving looks of disgust And annoyance from other patrons.I told her that if she did not start behaving 'right now' she would be punished. To my horror, she looked me in the eye and said in a voice just as threatening, 'If you don't let me go right now, I will tell Grandma that I saw you Kissing Daddy's pee-pee last night!' The silence was deafening after this enlightening exchange. Even the tellers stopped what they were doing. I mustered up the last of my dignity and Walked out of the bank with my daughter in tow. The last thing I heard when the door closed behind me, were screams of laughter.

FIFTH TESTIMONY:
Have you ever asked your child a question too many times? My three-year-old son had a lot of problems with potty training and I was on him constantly. One day we stopped at Taco Bell for a quick lunch, in between errands.It was very busy, with a full dining room. While enjoying my taco, I smelled something funny, So of course I checkedMy seven-month-old daughter, she was clean. Then realized that Danny Had not asked to go potty in a while. I asked him If he needed to go, And he said 'No'. I kept thinking 'Oh Lord, that child has had an accident, and I don't have any clothes with me.' Then I said,'Danny, are you SURE you didn't have an accident?' 'No,' he replied.I just KNEW that he must have had an accident, because the smell was getting worse. Soooooo, I asked one more time, 'Danny did you have an accident ? This time he jumped up, yanked down his pants, Bent over, spread his cheeksAnd yelled 'SEE MOM, IT'S JUST FARTS!!'While 30 people nearly choked to death on their tacos laughing, He calmly pulled up his pants and sat down. An old couple made me feel better,Thanking me for the best laugh they'd ever had!

LAST BUT NOT LEAST TESTIMONY:
This had most of the state of Michigan laughing for 2 days And a very embarrassed female news anchor who will, In the future, likely think before she speaks. What happens when you predict snow but don't get any! We had a female news anchor that, The day after it was supposed to have snowed and didn't, Turned to the weatherman and asked: 'So Bob, where's that 8 inches you promised me last night?' Not only did HE have to leave the set, But half the crew did too they were laughing so hard!Now, didn't that feel good? Pass it on to someone you know who needs a laughand rememberwe all say things we don't really me
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Customer: 'I've been calling 700-1000 for two days and can't get through; can you help?' Operator: 'Where did you get that number, sir?'
Customer: 'It's on the door of your business.'
Operator: 'Sir, those are the hours that we are open.'
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Samsung Electronics
Caller: 'Can you give me the telephone number for Jack?'
Operator: 'I'm sorry, sir, I don't understand who you are talking about.'
Caller: 'On page 1, section 5, of the user guide it clearly states that I need to unplug the fax machine from the AC wall socket and telephone Jack before cleaning. Now, can you give me the number for Jack?'
Operator: 'I think it means the telephone plug on the wall.'
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RAC Motoring Services
Caller: 'Does your European Breakdown Policy cover me when I am traveling in Australia?' Operator: 'Does the product name give you a clue?'
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Caller (enquiring about legal requirements while traveling in Europe) 'If I register my car in France, and then take it to England, do I have to change the steering wheel to the other side of the car?'
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Directory Enquiries
Caller: 'I'd like the number of the Argo Fish Bar, please'
Operator: 'I'm sorry, there's no listing. Are you sure that the spelling is correct?'
Caller: 'Well, it used to be called the Bargo Fish Bar but the 'B' fell off.'
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Then there was the caller who asked for a knitwear company in Woven.
Operator: 'Woven? Are you sure?'
Caller: 'Yes. That's what it says on the label -- Woven in Scotland.'
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On another occasion, a man making heavy breathing sounds from a phone told a worried operator: 'I haven't got a pen, so I'm steaming up the window to write the number on.'
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Tech Support: 'I need you to right-click on the Open Desktop.'
Customer: 'OK.'
Tech Support: 'Did you get a pop-up menu?'
Customer: 'No.'
Tech Support: 'OK. Right-Click again. Do you see a pop-up menu?'
Customer: 'No.'
Tech Support: 'OK, sir. Can you tell me what you have done up until this point?'
Customer: 'Sure. You told me to write 'click' and I wrote 'click'.'
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Tech Support: 'OK. At the bottom left hand side of your screen, can you see the 'OK' button displayed?'
Customer: 'Wow! How can you see my screen from there?'
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Caller: 'I deleted a file from my PC last week and I just realized that I need it. So, if I turn my system clock back two weeks will I get my file back again?'
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This has to be one of the funniest things in a long time. I think this guy should have been promoted, not fired. This is a true story from the WordPerfect Helpline, which was transcribed from a recording monitoring the customer care department. Needless to say the Help Desk employee was fired; however, he/she is currently suing the WordPerfect organization for 'Termination without Cause.' Actual? dialogue of a former WordPerfect Customer Support employee. (Now I know why they record these conversations! ):

Operator: 'Ridge Hall, computer assistance; may I help you?'
Caller: Yes well, I'm having trouble with WordPerfect.'
Operator: 'What sort of trouble??'
Caller: 'Well, I was just typing along, and all of a sudden the words went away.'
Operator: 'Went away?'
Caller: 'They disappeared.'
Operator: 'Hmm. So what does your screen look like now?'
Caller: 'Nothing.'
Operator: 'Nothing??'
Caller: 'It's blank; it won't accept anything when I type.'
Operator: 'Are you still in WordPerfect, or did you get out??'
Caller: 'How do I tell?'
Operator: 'Can you see the 'C: prompt' on the screen??'
Caller: 'What's a sea-prompt?'
Operator: 'Never mind, can you move your cursor around the screen?'
Caller: 'There isn't any cursor; I told you, it won't accept anything I type.'
Operator: 'Does your monitor have a power indicator??'
Caller: 'What's a monitor?'
Operator: 'It's the thing with the screen on it that looks like a TV. Does it have a little light that tells you when it's on??'
Caller: 'I don't know.'
Operator: 'Well, then look on the back of the monitor and find where the power cord goes into it. Can you see that??'
Caller: 'Yes, I think so.'
Operator: 'Great. Follow the cord to the plug, and tell me if it's plugged into the wall.
Caller: 'Yes, it is.'
Operator: 'When you were behind the monitor, did you notice that there were two cables plugged into the back of it, not just one??'
Caller: 'No.'
Operator: 'Well, there are. I need you to look back there again and find the other cable.'
Caller: 'Okay, here it is.'
Operator: 'Follow it for me, and tell me if it's plugged securely into the back of your computer.' Caller: 'I can't reach.'
Operator: 'OK. Well, can you see if it is??'
Caller: 'No.'
Operator: 'Even if you maybe put your knee on something and lean way over??'
Caller: 'Well, it's not because I don't have the right angle -- it's because it's dark.'
Operator: 'Dark??'
Caller: 'Yes - the office light is off, and the only light I have is coming in from the window.' Operator: 'Well, turn on the office light then.'
Caller: 'I can't.'
Operator: 'No? Why not??'
Caller: 'Because there's a power failure.'
Operator: 'A power .... A power failure? Aha. Okay, we've got it licked now. Do you still have the boxes and manuals and packing stuff that your computer came in??'
Caller: 'Well, yes, I keep them in the closet.'
Operator: 'Good. Go get them, and unplug your system and pack it up just like it was when you got it. Then take it back to the store you bought it from.'
Caller: 'Really? Is it that bad?'
Operator: 'Yes, I'm afraid it is.'
Caller: 'Well, all right then, I suppose. What do I tell them??'
Operator: 'Tell them you're too stupid to own a computer!!!!!!!

hahahahaah what a great laugh

Bayar Hutang time

2008-09-30T13:12:00.001+08:00

I got this tag from Jenn. Didn’t realize it until I go and dig her blog. Sorry dearie.

1. When you buy a greetings card, are the words or the picture more important to you?
Both

2. What’s your favorite kind of cake?
Fresh cream Fruit cake and ice cream chocolate cake

3. Do you ever make gifts for people, if so what, or do you buy them?
Sometimes when I am on my creative mood, I’ll make it but most of the time buy it.

4. What’s your favorite holiday?
Going to country side, laze around and take bath in a cold river water

5. Are you going on holiday this year?
Done

6. What was the best party you’ve ever been to?
Can’t really remember

7. If you are married, describe your wedding. If not, what would your ideal wedding be like?They said it is “The Wedding of the Year”… love it

8. What’s the most romantic thing that’s ever happened to you?
a lot until can’t describe it

9. What’s your favorite girls’ name?
faith and miracle

10. What’s your favorite boys’ name?
can’t think of any

11. Which celebrity would you like a dream date with?
hehehe don’t have any in mind but maybe Hans Isaac the Local artise

12. Which female celebrity do you find beautiful? Angelina Jolie or Jennifer Aniston?
The sexy Angelina Jolie of course

13. Which male celebrity do you think is attractive?
Forgot his name already but yes he is attractive

14. What is your best character trait?
Don’t know yet-lazy to think hard-

15. What is your worst habit?
clumsy and worry a lot

Do I need to spread this tag?... Maybe next time k.

faith

2008-09-25T11:18:00.001+08:00

I really need this right now.

Leap of Faith

Leap of Faith
Was it only me
Or did the blind man see
The beautiful rainbow on the mountain top
Couldn’t tell where it began or where it would stop

Was it only meOr did the cripple man break free
And ran up the stairway to heaven
Like he had just rolled a seven or an eleven
Call them leaps of faithShowing strengths unknown
So powerful, you know, you are not alone
Was it only me
Or did the weak man find glory
And learned that love comes as a supernatural energy
And it is for all to share, it is our destiny
Was it only me Or did the poor man find the key
That keeps him from falling into the deep end
It opened his heart and grace fell in
Call them leaps of faith
Baby steps towards eternal salvation
That takes you on a lifelong trip without reservation
Was it only me
Or did the lonely man seek serenity
Learned to judge others equally
Placed everyone on a pedestal so they could all see
That it wasn’t only meIt was always there in reverie
To take that leap of faith into our destiny

-Alfred Ramos-

Untitled

2008-09-24T16:05:00.003+08:00

SHOUT TO THE LORD

“My Jesus, my Savior

Lord there is none like you

All of my days, I want to praise

The wonders of your mighty love

My comfort, my Shelter T

ower of refuge and strength

Let every breath, all that I am

Never cease to worship you

Shout to the Lord, all the earth

Let us sing.

Power and majesty, praise to the king.

Mountains bow down and the seas will roar

At the sound of your name

I sing for joy at the works of your hands

Forever I'll love you, forever I'll stand

Nothing compares to the promise I have in you”

This song always give peace to my mind eveytime I'm in some dilemma, sad or stress. Its true when people says you will only remember GOD when you are in trouble or when you need HIS help. I agree with the statement as I am one of them.

Nevertheless, a good song like these hillsong is my way of getting away from any kind or problem. I know some people especially ladies (no offence ya), crying is the best way.

What will you do if you sad, or when you are depress?

Prayer needed

2008-09-18T09:09:00.006+08:00

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Can it be trusted?

2008-09-18T09:09:00.003+08:00

I always turn to soya bean when asked what type of soft drink I love. It is merely because the other soft drink like coke is high is sugar. But After I read about Soy in this email forwarded to me and searching the net about it, I make me scared. What are other option do we have? I guess asking for warm or cold water or even only chinese tea is the safest drink. And I might start ditching all those soy related food like taufo, tempe and even long beans. Gosh the world is no more safe for us now adays.

I went through this and this website to reconfirm and it is quite scary. Anybody can reconfirm about this?

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IMPORTANT FOR LADIES

The soya bean is the seed of the leguminous soya bean plant. Soya foods
have been a staple part of the Chinese diet for over 4000 years but have
only been widely consumed in Western countries since the 1960's. Soya
foods include tofu, tempeh, textured vegetable protein (chunks, mince etc), miso, soya sauces, soya oil and margarine, and soya dairy alternatives.

THIS ARTICLE IS THRU THE KIND COURTESY OF MS SUREKHA RAMCHANDANI, ONE WOMAN'S STORY ON SOYA...

Something to take note of. This is my true story, nothing altered. These are facts, as they relate to my experience, my opinions based on what I have read and felt. I am relating them to warn other young health-conscious women who are unwittingly harming themselves.
In 1989, I graduated from high school in Texas and couldn't wait to hit the big college city. One of the changes I wanted to make was to eat healthier. Once I moved to health-conscious Austin , Texas , I began to fortify my body with the best and healthiest foods I could find.
Tofu was the main ingredient in every healthy dish and I bought soya milk almost every day and used it for everything from cereal to smoothies or just to drink for a quick snack. I bought soya muffins, miso soup with tofu, soybeans, soybean sprouts, etc.
All the literature in all the health and fitness magazines said that soya protected you against everything from heart disease to breast cancer. It was the magical isoflavones, the estrogen-like hormones that all worked to help you stay young and healthy. I looked great, I was working out all the time, but my menstrual cycle was off. At 20, I started taking birth control pills to regulate my menstrual cycle.

In addition to this I began to suffer from painful periods. I began to get puffy, it was as though I was losing my muscle tone. I began to suffer from depression and getting hot flushes. I mistook all this for PMS since my periods were irregular. By the time I was 25, my periods were so bad, I couldn't walk.

The birth control pills never made them regular or less painful so I dec! ided to stop taking them. I went on like this for another two years until I realized my pain wasn't normal. At 27, my gynecologist found two cysts in my uterus. Both were the size of tennis balls. I went through surgery to have them removed and thank God they were benign. The gynecologist told me to go back on birth control pills. I didn't. In1998, he discovered a lump in my breast. Again, I went through surgery and again it was benign.
In November 2000 my glands swelled up and my gums became inflamed. Thinking I had a tooth infection I went to the dentist who told me that teeth were not the problem. After a dose of antibiotics the swelling still did not go down. At this point I could feel a tiny nodule on the right side of my neck. I told my mother I had thyroid trouble. She thought I was being silly. No one in the family suffered from thyroid trouble. Going on a hunch I saw a specialist who diagnosed me with Papillary Thyroid Carcinoma.
After a series of tests he told me it was cancer. My fiance and I sat stunned. We were not prepared and I was so scared. We scheduled surgery right away. The specialist told us that it would only be after the operation that a pathologist would be able to tell us for sure if it was cancer. They found a tumor in my right lobe composed of irregular cells and another smaller tumor growing on the left, so the entire thyroid was removed.
They told me that after undergoing radioactive iodine I would be safe and assured me that I could live a long life. After treatment I began to search for the cause of all these problems. I never once thought it could be all the soya I had consumed for nearly ten years.
After all, soya is healthy. I came upon a web page that linked thyroid problems to soya intake and the conspiracy of soya marketed as a health food when in fact it is only a toxic by-product of the vegetable oil industry. This was insane, after all, the health and fitness magazines said nothing about soya being harmful.
I visited a herbalist who was diagnosed with thyroid cancer in 1985. She informed me that soya was the culprit. She had a hysterectomy due to cysts and other uterine problems. A few months later another acquaintance who had consumed soya came down with thyroid cancer. A girl in England I met through the Internet in a thyroid cancer forum had just undergone surgery and she was only 19. What was going on???? Breast cancer is linked to estrogen. What mimics estrogen in the female body, SOYA!

But I never suspected soya because until now I never once found a single article that stated soya could be dangerous. Women who took soya prior to thyroid problems will continue to take it after if they are not aware of what soya actually does, what it contains and how it reacts in the female body. I think this is the reason that women with thyroid cancer often develop breast cancer later.

My co-worker is big into soya and I see her losing hair and gaining weigh despite a walking workout during her break and after work, and apples and oranges for lunch. She just had cysts removed from her uterus too. I warned her to stay off soya. I referred her to websites but until it is on the evening news on all four networks, women will suffer. Since the thyroidectomy, I do not touch soya, haven't for two years.

Dear readers, please use my story in any way you can. There are so many young girls who are consuming soya because they think they are taking care of themselves, and women taking soya because they want to be healthy.

It is so unfair that the information about the dangers of soya isn't more widely circulated. It is sad. There are many out there who feel this way and it is a terrible blow when you realize you are not as healthy as you thought and that the information that you depended on was wrong. check the attached link too for more information... http://www.guardian.co.uk/world/2000/aug/13/foodanddrink http://www.patrickholford.com/content.asp?id_Content=1415

Just for me

2008-09-12T10:14:00.003+08:00

I received this beautiful award from this two beautiful people Juliet and Faye and I am giving it back to....*drum roll* hehehe I am keeping this one just for my own self.. sorry guys. I am just being "kedekut" here but just for today. (I'm not going to follow rule number 3 to 5). But for those of you who want this award to give to your friends, you are welcome to take it from me though.

Some rules:
1. Put the logo on your blog
2. Add a link to the person who awarded it to you
3. Nominate at least 7 other blogs
4. Add links to these blogs on your blog
5. Leave a message for your nominee on their blog

Bored..?

2008-09-09T19:42:00.005+08:00

This is what happen when someone are bored.... they tend to do silly things but sometimes the result is remarkable...

(My Misai Kucing. Love the flower)

(some of the 10 new puppies)

(introducing the man behind the scene)

THE GREATEST ADVICE -Rick Warren, the Purpose Driven Life

2008-09-09T09:43:00.003+08:00

When is the last time I update my blog?. Well it's not because I am lazy, but its because I can't put things in words. So as not to abandon you my dear Diary, I am going to post and share this greatest advice by Rick Warren. Really an eye opener.

THE GREATEST ADVICE -Rick Warren, the Purpose Driven Life

Don't date because you are desperate.
Don't marry because you are miserable.
Don't have kids because you think your genes are superior.
Don't philander because you think you are irresistible.

Don't associate with people you can't trust.
Don't cheat. Don't lie. Don't pretend.
Don't dictate because you are smarter.
Don't demand because you are stronger.

Don't sleep around because you think you are old enough & know better.
Don't hurt your kids because loving them is harder.
Don't sell yourself, your family, or your ideals.
Don't stagnate!Don't regress.

Don't live in the past. Time can't bring anything or anyone back.
Don't put your life on hold for possibly Mr. Right.
Don't throw your life away on absolutely Mr. Wrong because your
biological clock is ticking.

Learn a new skill.
Find a new friend.
Start a new career.
Sometimes, there is no race to be won, only a price to be paid for some
of life's more hasty decisions.

To terminate your loneliness, reach out to the homeless.
To feed your nurturing instincts, care for the needy.
To fulfill your parenting fantasies, get a puppy.
Don't bring another life into this world for all the wrong reasons.

To make yourself happy, pursue your passions & be the best of what you
can be.
Simplify your life. Take away the clutter.
Get rid of destructive elements: abusive friends, nasty habits,
and dangerous liaisons.Don't abandon your responsibilities but don't overdose on duty.

Don't live life recklessly without thought and feeling for your family.
Be true to yourself.
Don't commit when you are not ready.
Don't keep others waiting needlessly.

Go on that trip. Don't postpone it.
Say those words.
Don't let the moment pass.
Do what you have to, even at society's scorn.

Write poetry.
Love Deeply.
Walk barefoot.
Dance with wild abandon.

Cry at the movies.Take care of yourself. Don't wait for someone to take care of you.
You light up your life.
You drive yourself to your destination.
No one completes you - except YOU.

It isn't true that life does not get easier with age.
It only gets more challenging.
Don't be afraid. Don't lose your capacity to love.
Pursue your passions.

Live your dreams.
Don't lose faith in God.
Don't grow old. Just grow YOU!

When you give someone your time, you are giving them a portion of your
life that you'll never get back.
Your time is your life. That is why the greatest gift you can give to
someone is your time.
Relationships take time and effort, and the best way to spell love is
T-I-M-E because the essence of love is not what we think or do or
provide for others, but how much we give of ourselves .

Which one is better?

2008-09-03T12:18:00.000+08:00

Situation A
Baby is working with a private sector where people say pay a big sum of salary. Never did people know that her monthly income is only RM2K++ without any allowances as what the Government people are earning. Her net income after deducting Insurance, EPF, Socso etc, is RM1,500++. The following are her monthly expenses after her net salary :_

Pay Car Installment = RM570.00
Pay HP bills = RM50.00
Pay Credit Card ( 1 card) = RM300.00
Pay maid = RM150.00
Other monthly installment = RM200.00
B’fast & Launch
(RM7 x 5 days x 4 weeks) = RM140.00 (kuih in the morning & nasi lemak for launch)

Total monthly expenses = RM1,410.00

NET Balance income = RM90.00

Note : She’s using her own car to work and share with her husband on the petrol which cost them RM90 per week. (No weekend, no shopping)

Can somebody tell her how to survive with her net balance of income?

Situation B
Jamie is working as a government servant earning about RM4,000 ++ with all the government allowances. He also provided with government vehicle and of course with free petrol. After deducting loans, pension/EPF, and other deductions, his net take home pay is around RM2K++. He also earn extra income from his land tenancy which he get around RM3,000++ (just to put the figure at a minimum amount). Someone’s Pension RM800++ payable to him. His other expenses is as follows:-

Pay Car Installment = RM1,500.00
(Just bought new car and have 1 other car which he have finish paying)
Electricity = RM200.00
Water = RM100.00
Credit Card (3 cards) = RM300.00
Handphone Bill = RM100.00
B’fast & lunch = RM500.00 (campur belanja GF)
Other expenses = RM300.00
Total monthly expenses = RM3,000.00

NET Balance income = RM2,800.00

Situation C
Diana is also working with the government (in education field) and earning RM3,000++ monthly. After deducting all the other necessary deduction will bring home around RM2K++.Work place is just 15 minutes drive form home (plus jam. With no jam less than 10 minutes.). Her other expenses is as follows:-

Pay Car installment = RM900.00
Pay Study Loan = RM300.00
Handphone bill = RM70.00
Credit Card (3 cards) = RM200.00
House phone = RM30.00
Pay maid = RM150.00

Total monthly expenses = RM1,650.00

NET Balance Income = RM350.00

You guys be the judge, who earn a lot and not going to suffer even have to come out with an emergency money of RM850 for only one month? Who have to work extra hour to cover up expenses and in order to save money? Who have really sweet time enjoying life?

Girlfriend

2008-09-03T10:22:00.002+08:00

National Girlfriend and Sister's Week
I am only as strong as the coffee I drink, the hairspray I use and the friends I have.
To the cool women who have touched my life. Here's to you!
It is good to be a woman:
1. We got off the Titanic first.
2. We can scare male bosses with the mysterious gynecological disorder excuses.
3. Taxis stop for us.
4. We don't look like a frog in a blender when dancing.
5. No fashion faux pas we make, could ever rival the Speedo.
6. We don't have to pass gas to amuse ourselves.
7. If we forget to shave, no one has to know.
8. We can congratulate our teammate without ever touching her rear end.
9. We never have to reach down every so often to make sure our privates are still there.
10. We have the ability to dress ourselves.
11. We can talk to the opposite sex without having to picture them naked.
12. If we marry someone 20 years younger, we are aware that we will look like an idiot.
13. We will never regret piercing our ears.
14. There are times when chocolate really can solve all your problems.
15. We can make comments about how silly men are in their presence because they aren't listening anyway.
Send this to all the bright women you know and make their day!!!!!

One task down..

2008-09-02T09:00:00.004+08:00

.. Yes it is now official and I am proud to announce that I have completed one of my tasks. Remember me talking about buying a new Digicam since the old one died on me? Well my ole Sony Cyber shoot was official sold to a friend of mine and now I am a new owner of a different brand of Digicam.

Hubby & I have put a lot of thought on which one to buy. So after much thinking done and after getting a hand of the camera, we have decided to “adopt” it.

I have been eying this camera but hubby said (after testing it) the outcome is just the same but wit a way too big difference in price. So introducing my new not so canggih camera. (one day dslr..one day..)

O mine is the one blue in colour

I think this is ok la for a beginner like me. So guest will have to learn and get to know her already. Can’t wait to show off the outcome.

O about the handy cam, we more or less found it but hubby said wait till we found something else. Hmmm.. another search to do.

Live Update..

2008-08-30T10:28:00.002+08:00

..Wow... since when did I last update my blog?.. I am again in a state of what people say "writer's blocked" (perasan write pulak saya ni). Well I've got nothing interesting to update which bring me to think the main purpose of this blog. I only have one blog to maintain any I found it difficult to fulfill the responsibility. How about you guys who have More than one blog?.

What actually I have in mind now is .."go vacation...go vacation..". (Balik2 juga kau cakap benda ni.cakap saja tapi tidak pernah pigi pun). Where to go? I have Kuching in mind and Langkawai as well (Just being a good Malaysian. Go local :)). Actually I've been to Kuching last year but for only 3 days 2 night journey and with a very tight schedule. Didn't really have time to enjoy the "ME" time there so I want to make it possible this time to go and visit all the places that Che'gu Carol mentioned in her blog.

Keep finger crossed that I'll go this year. (yes I know Airasia is offering 1M free seat.)